If your going to make any assumptions on what is truth within the Christian tradition, you shouldn't be going anywhere outside of scripture for those answers. Scriptures aren't supposed to be interpreted in the lense of emotion, but scripture by scripture. Emotionally I would like to think that all my family would be saved, but its likely that not all will...but scripture says that not all men will be saved, so THATS what I must go by. I'm also fully aware that most liberals don't take the scriptures literally, which is part of the reason you all generally fall into heresies long since dealt with. You shouldn't be neglecting the testament of history, and the testament of history says that universalism, is heresy and Unorthodox, and thus by being unorthodox is un-christian.