Okay I don't know where to put this. My brother posted on Facebook that he expects everyone to support his decision to have a child out of wedlock and I know his current situation. They haven't been on their own together for at least a full year. They've had to move back in with their parents already because their income faltered and they had no way to maintain their 300 dollar a month apartment on dual incomes.
So he says either say something positive on his status or be in support of this or pretty much never see their child...
I don't know if this belongs in the political subforum because I am mentioning welfare but here goes:
I do NOT think welfare is thieving from the taxpayers as one user said to me in one of my own threads. However I do believe that being on food stamps and other forms of government assistance puts you in a bad position to "try" and have children. His girlfriend is not yet pregnant he just jumped on the "I'm gonna play Daddy at 22 years old and expect everyone to be in full support of this while I am struggling to feed myself and since I am not married."
Again I think there is a situation where government assistance (although a flawed system IMO) IS necessary and I do not get my draws in a knot when I see someone using foodstamps at the check out. In fact it doesn't even cross my mind to question or judge. So before anyone can say I hate poor people (of which I am one) I just want to put that out. I DO think the system is flawed but won't get into that.
I mean really? Should I just ignore him? I obviously cannot go around throwing scripture at him and telling him I do not support this kind of thing. I know I have kids and my life isn't in the best conditions all the time. I was, however married, and I did not announce to everyone that I am going to TRY on having kids and while I'm at it you better support my decision or get lost.
So he says either say something positive on his status or be in support of this or pretty much never see their child...
I don't know if this belongs in the political subforum because I am mentioning welfare but here goes:
I do NOT think welfare is thieving from the taxpayers as one user said to me in one of my own threads. However I do believe that being on food stamps and other forms of government assistance puts you in a bad position to "try" and have children. His girlfriend is not yet pregnant he just jumped on the "I'm gonna play Daddy at 22 years old and expect everyone to be in full support of this while I am struggling to feed myself and since I am not married."
Again I think there is a situation where government assistance (although a flawed system IMO) IS necessary and I do not get my draws in a knot when I see someone using foodstamps at the check out. In fact it doesn't even cross my mind to question or judge. So before anyone can say I hate poor people (of which I am one) I just want to put that out. I DO think the system is flawed but won't get into that.
I mean really? Should I just ignore him? I obviously cannot go around throwing scripture at him and telling him I do not support this kind of thing. I know I have kids and my life isn't in the best conditions all the time. I was, however married, and I did not announce to everyone that I am going to TRY on having kids and while I'm at it you better support my decision or get lost.