Let me preface by saying my husband struggled for years with inappropriate contentography and online relationships. During the 5 years of our marriage we have had three wonderful children but our relationship has always been very very strained and difficult. I created an online persona (fake) to befriend him and entertain him so that he would have someone who understood him when I so clearly didn't. I spent time chatting with him on this fake account and exchanged pictures and talked about just about everything under the sun. It was so nice to get to spend time with the man I married who was happy and easy going, not like the guy I dealtw ith on a daily basis who hated his kids/job/and me.
Well, he gave up the inappropriate content and all the online relationships and gradually outgrew all of his other bad habits. Our kids are a bit older now and we started to get along really well, but I still signed in to the fake account now and again to chat with him. I finally decided that I was finally disgusted with myself for all the stupidness associated with such an act and deleted the account.
The problem? Now he's worried about his friend because he hasn't heard from "her" in a few weeks.
My question is whether to say nothing or to come clean. If I say nothing, he will worry about his friend. If I come clean, he will probably divorce me and possibly want me committed for being a complete psycho.
Can you guys help me? Anyone have any firsthand experience here?
My husband has already told me firsthand that if you do something terrible like an affair, you shouldn't etll your spouse since "no good will come of it." What do you guys think?
Well, he gave up the inappropriate content and all the online relationships and gradually outgrew all of his other bad habits. Our kids are a bit older now and we started to get along really well, but I still signed in to the fake account now and again to chat with him. I finally decided that I was finally disgusted with myself for all the stupidness associated with such an act and deleted the account.
The problem? Now he's worried about his friend because he hasn't heard from "her" in a few weeks.
My question is whether to say nothing or to come clean. If I say nothing, he will worry about his friend. If I come clean, he will probably divorce me and possibly want me committed for being a complete psycho.
Can you guys help me? Anyone have any firsthand experience here?
My husband has already told me firsthand that if you do something terrible like an affair, you shouldn't etll your spouse since "no good will come of it." What do you guys think?