I toyed around with the idea of registering for a while , I have to admit I was afraid of doing it . Putting thoughts on paper (or the modern version of it) is hard.
But I feel like my life is so much out of control and so dark that I needed to do something . And I think I need to provide a little background information first . I live in Germany which is basically christian but nobody really believes anything anymore and churches are empty except on Christmas. It's an atmosphere of everything goes and who needs God anyway. I'm 29 years old and I have dealt with my homosexual attractions for close to 14 years , I'm just so tired and I know if I'd talk to anyone within my circle of friend or my family they wouldn't understand . They would not understand why I have a problem with it . But I don't want to be like this . As a little girl I've dreamed of my wedding , my house , my children and I'm scared I will never have that . God made us like puzzle pieces to fit together (I know , not the best example ) and I feel like my puzzle is missing a lot of parts .
I try to not think to much about it but I can't seem to get away from it . I take the train to work and every day it's crowded in there . I try to focus on the men in there but I can't help but stare at the women . I now take an earlier train because there was a bit of an awkward situation with one woman who would always sit on a seat facing me and all I could do was look at her eyes.
And I'm angry , why me? Hasn't God put me through enough already . I never had a father , my stepfather wasn't much to write home about either . I wish I could see Gods plan for me .
But I feel like my life is so much out of control and so dark that I needed to do something . And I think I need to provide a little background information first . I live in Germany which is basically christian but nobody really believes anything anymore and churches are empty except on Christmas. It's an atmosphere of everything goes and who needs God anyway. I'm 29 years old and I have dealt with my homosexual attractions for close to 14 years , I'm just so tired and I know if I'd talk to anyone within my circle of friend or my family they wouldn't understand . They would not understand why I have a problem with it . But I don't want to be like this . As a little girl I've dreamed of my wedding , my house , my children and I'm scared I will never have that . God made us like puzzle pieces to fit together (I know , not the best example ) and I feel like my puzzle is missing a lot of parts .
I try to not think to much about it but I can't seem to get away from it . I take the train to work and every day it's crowded in there . I try to focus on the men in there but I can't help but stare at the women . I now take an earlier train because there was a bit of an awkward situation with one woman who would always sit on a seat facing me and all I could do was look at her eyes.
And I'm angry , why me? Hasn't God put me through enough already . I never had a father , my stepfather wasn't much to write home about either . I wish I could see Gods plan for me .