memoriesbymichelle
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Just how does one bring $300 worth of food, most of which needed to be put in the freezer to someone without them knowing?
You would have to know my personality. I am a servant. I have been sending food to them for six months now.
I can tell you what each of the 150 people in my church drink on Sundays at dinner after church, I can also tell you who eats what. So, when they line up after church and I start serving I don't have to wait for someone to tell me they want this or that I know because I am a servant. It is something God must have put in me, I don't know.
There are 18 people who live here right now. I can tell you all of their favorite foods, what I need to do special as far as likes and dislikes and allergies when I cook every day. I like to take care of people, it brings me joy. So you don't know what you are talking about when you said that I only did that because he is there.
I did NOT say you only did that because he was there. What I said was that it sounded like you were justifying your actions because he was there. I KNOW you are a servant, I get THAT. I also know about feelings and have had similar feelings that you are having, but the difference is that I don't act on those feelings. And another thing is that you say how can you deliver groceries anonymously. Well what about a gift card to the grocery store? What about having the grocery store deliver them? What about having ANYONE else that you know deliver them? Anyway I am not trying to take away from the good that you are doing, it's just the whole snacks for him thing really, plus the giving of scriptures, and whatever else you are doing that keeps the relationship in this hopeful state for you. Like K9 said, we aren't talking about your "service" and you are the one that started this thread. I may not be privy to your whole situation, but to say I don't know what I'm talking about when I give my opinion seems just a tad rude to me, just sayin'
Look I saw an old boyfriend from (30 years ago) about 2 years ago and ever since then I can't get him out of my mind. He wasn't a good boyfriend but he was my first real love. I used to think of all kinds of ways to contact him (he lives in a different state) but I stop myself EVERY time because I KNOW it would never work and I KNOW the only reason I am even thinking about him is because I saw him, and my husband had died, but still I STILL THINK ABOUT HIM AND WHAT IF'S, so I think I DO KNOW WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT on that subject anyway, and that is what I was referring to, not how kind you are or what a great servant you are.
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