My wife and I are now separated. I have been here alone for four weeks and the pain and anxiety are sometimes unbearable. This being new years eve with her hundreds of miles away is almost overwhelming. How do you just stop loving someone who was your best friend, partner and helpmate. Yes, I have my faith and know that God's will prevails, but the letting go is so very hard. At 52 starting over, financial concerns, the need to find a new job in a new location are all scary, but the hardest part is to stop loving someone when it tears you apart to even think about such as that. We had been married for only a year and a half and evrything seemed to fall apart in one evening. Now, she seems consumed with anger and there is no possibility of communication. PLEASE pray for us. Sorry, no smiley faces here.