Mike:
I'm so very, very sorry. This is Donna in Louisiana.
Dede was extremely special to me. I spent a long time co-modding with her here on CF, and of course I blew up the phone bill occasionally by talking to her. She was more than a co-mod to me...She was a dear friend and kindred soul. I last spoke with her a few months ago and I had no idea she had gone downhill.
Dede was amazing, a great friend with a heart of gold, and a woman of grace and strength. Her love of God shone through everything she did, and her perseverance was legendary.
I'm so, so sorry. I wish I could be up there with y'all. Just know that as the Mass is said today, my tears fall with the family's, and my heart has broken, as well. May God comfort you with the knowledge that even in her pain, she inspired, led and loved others to Christ.
God has gained an angel in heaven, but I'm devastated to hear of her passing.