another thing that makes me mad!

(no offence to anyone!!)
but GIRLS have it so easy!! check this out..
a girl can accept Jesus' gift and be saved...then she can go and have sex with all the guys she wants and break their hearts...and if the guy makes her upset, she can call the police and say he raped her or something stupid...and then the guy goes to jail....similar situation happend to a good friend of mine

I'm seriously intrigued as to where you've got this idea that girls can sleep around and still be considered saved.. honestly who is teaching you this stuff?

Nah-uh. It's not quite so easy as that. Don't forget that God sees all and knows all, that while He's eternally merciful He's also eternally just. The girl in the story you just related won't escape in the end, and the guy might end up justified if he was falsely accused.

Maybe that's one reason I continue to believe. The idea that ultimately, nobody "gets away with it", that sin must be confessed and repented of, that there's an ultimate Judge of us all who can't be bought or bamboozled, and so on. Thinking that you can "Get saved" then continue on as if you had never heard that there was a god is only fooling yourself. God doesn't offer "Holy Fire Insurance" to any of us, and He won't write blank checks so we can "Accept Jesus" then go on sinning--- male OR female.

Oh, about the guy in the story-- a little late for him, but for every other male may I make a suggestion? Welding your zipper shut until marriage is real good "fire insurance" and saves a whole lot of trouble. You don't get charged with rape that way, you don't accidentally father unwanted children, further, if you can bring that aspect of your life under control of Christ you're well on your way to being a real man and not just another pretender. The only downside is that you won't get "lucky" tonight--- but, given the way that kind of luck so often seems to run, one wonders how "lucky" that really is.

Umm... a girl that has sex with randoms and lies to people about being raped most likely hasn't accepted Jesus into her heart. You can't be filled with the holy spirit and continue to live a life like that.

What she says and what's in her heart aren't always the same.

Of course I'm not saying this is the case, she could have just made some bad desicions. As for the eternity of her soul, only God is judge.

If she repents and asks for her sins to be forgiven in Jesus' mighty name, then that's the best thing she can do.

Also, God writes the rules. I wouldn't be 'mad' at them.

Yeah, but we're more at risk of STIs, if I recall correctly.

erm...Girl sleeping with multiple guys?...I seriously question her salvation.

girls have the same requirements and responsibilities as Christians that boys do. We don't get off easy from the wrath of God because we have different body parts and more estrogen in our system. God expects true repentance and holiness from us both. And men are just as capable of lying and hurting women in many different ways as women are.

sounds like you really need to find another crowd of Christians to spend your time with.

little_tigress said:

girls have the same requirements and responsibilities as Christians that boys do. We don't get off easy from the wrath of God because we have different body parts and more estrogen in our system. God expects true repentance and holiness from us both. And men are just as capable of lying and hurting women in many different ways as women are.

sounds like you really need to find another crowd of Christians to spend your time with.

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This.
And a lot of growing up to do.

The better argument would be lamenting why girls can always find a man (or at least always have "demand"), but guys are basically screwed unless some lowly girl takes a chance on us, like a felon trying to get a job.

That would be a better argument than this saved-but-sleeping-around thing that really doesn't make any sense.

There's a word for girls like that where I come from... So I'm not understanding your argument at all.