Hi!
I have a 4 yr old daughter and she does not like being the center of attention. She gets embarrassed pretty easy. She's been around other kids in a small day care since she was an infant, so it's not that she hasn't been "socialized". We started her in a summer ballet class. During the second class the teacher told all the other student to look at her because she was doing the position perfectly. Now she doesn't want to go back. She makes up the excuse that it makes her tired, but I know that's not true. She was upset because everyone was looking at her. We are trying to tell her we will talk to the teacher and ask her not to do it. I know there's a fine line here. I don't want to push her to go and then have her never want to try something like it again, but yet I also would like to see her finish the lessons. Anyone struggle with something similar?
Thanks,
Kristen
I have a 4 yr old daughter and she does not like being the center of attention. She gets embarrassed pretty easy. She's been around other kids in a small day care since she was an infant, so it's not that she hasn't been "socialized". We started her in a summer ballet class. During the second class the teacher told all the other student to look at her because she was doing the position perfectly. Now she doesn't want to go back. She makes up the excuse that it makes her tired, but I know that's not true. She was upset because everyone was looking at her. We are trying to tell her we will talk to the teacher and ask her not to do it. I know there's a fine line here. I don't want to push her to go and then have her never want to try something like it again, but yet I also would like to see her finish the lessons. Anyone struggle with something similar?
Thanks,
Kristen
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