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End of issue in the "bigotry, hatefulness and phobia" of the pro family Christian position. You should be defending the pro-marriage (Man and Woman marriage) Christians.

It's unavoidable that your theology is Anything goes ism. Of course you have the right to tag a Christian label on it, but we have the right to challenge your alternate version. As Jude so aptly urges us to.

YET, the Christian scriptures "Christianity" defined marriage far differently than that. The man and woman were equals with a structure. And still absoluetly no such things as endorsed or an endorsement of same gender marriage. Your theological political movement was addressed as being current throughout time. Now, you CAN become a secularist and follow secularism, which it appears you are doing firmly, but that also has no endorsement in the scriptures. And we see, that is why they must be relgated to the ash heap of ancient times.

Slaves were common from Moses' time remember? Are you forgetting there is a epistle (Philemon) detailing how to treat slaves?

The Hebrew-Christians dealt with NON Hebrew Christians and still, never changed what a marriage is. You have utterly no justification to do so except a non Christian angle. Just be honest that your position on gay marriage runs counter to the message of the church and be done with it. Your position unleashes anything and everything now be a Christian thing just because a new group doesn't like Christian truth.

Are there NOT Christian truths for the ages??? Even you liberals seem to say there is, except you want it to fit whatever drives your humanism to be its equal.

The chauvanistic or domination element within the patriarchal mindset was dealt with too in Christian truth. Still though, not even a hint of homosexuality being a basis for forever redefining marriage as the pagans have and will do.

Not. There is Christian truth and there is false teachings that say they are Christian reality. In the "That was then this is now," positions, there is no such thing as Christian truth. There is only the word "Christian" attached to whatever new political/social movement desires power in western (and global south, central and south America and asian) societies while trying to gain power without resorting to military action or violent civil unrest.

How does your position NOT redefine everything through a secular/godless lens, and is able to force that method into the "historic" Christain church?

Just for now ...I was simply addressing the OP regarding marriage between man and woman. I never said anything regarding 'my position' on gay marriage.

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Just for now ...I was simply addressing the OP regarding marriage between man and woman. I never said anything regarding 'my position' on gay marriage.
Indeed. But how to get past the cognitive disonance that convinces them they are right?

(Fun note, the primary symptom of cognitive disonance? Illogical non sequitor type responses to questions or information that draws attention to conflicting prefered beliefs. Sound familiar?)
 
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Just for now ...I was simply addressing the OP regarding marriage between man and woman. I never said anything regarding 'my position' on gay marriage.

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Unless we are just cutting and pasting, isn't most everything we write our positions?
 
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Indeed. But how to get past the cognitive disonance that convinces them they are right?

That defines the progressive and liberal behaviors to being challenged.

(Fun note, the primary symptom of cognitive disonance? Illogical non sequitor type responses to questions or information that draws attention to conflicting prefered beliefs. Sound familiar?)

Once again, you have defined how the standard liberal or progressive acts. Gather around a crowd of self-minded clubmembers and bagger the opposition with sound bite comebacks and nod in enlightened agreement?

KCKID as is usally the case, could not debate the issue point for point, position by position.

As Jude says when expressing his cognitive dissonance . . .:

Dear friends, although I was very eager to write to you about the salvation we share, I felt I had to write and urge you to contend for the faith that was once for all entrusted to the saints. For certain men whose condemnation was written about long ago have secretly slipped in among you. They are godless men, who change the grace of our God into a license for immorality and deny Jesus Christ our only Sovereign and Lord.

Or maybe it was just an accurate description of what does, and always will, come at the church.
 
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That defines the progressive and liberal behaviors to being challenged.



Once again, you have defined how the standard liberal or progressive acts. Gather around a crowd of self-minded clubmembers and bagger the opposition with sound bite comebacks and nod in enlightened agreement?

KCKID as is usally the case, could not debate the issue point for point, position by position.

As Jude says when expressing his cognitive dissonance . . .:



Or maybe it was just an accurate description of what does, and always will, come at the church.
Ha ha ha... case in point.
 
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KCKID,
Just for now ...I was simply addressing the OP regarding marriage between man and woman. I never said anything regarding 'my position' on gay marriage.
the thread is asking for scriptural support for gay marriage, not your position in it, God is God regardless of your position.
If there is no support for it then your position is merely based on your own faulty thinking.

 
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If God's position is bigoted, prejudice and hateful as some of you think, thats no problem for me, I will stick with God.
On the other hand some have already said, if that is God's position, as it is, they dont want anything to do with God, which of course is their choice. But some of you are suggesting the Biblical testimony, as cited and quoted here, from the same New International version as the CF statment of faith uses, then I think you are attacking the Christian faith.
If you wish to attack the Christian faith can I suggest another thread, until something is proven there you need to acknowledge and recognise what the NIV Bible quotes say.
 
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If God's position is bigoted, prejudice and hateful as some of you think, thats no problem for me, I will stick with God.
On the other hand some have already said, if that is God's position, as it is, they dont want anything to do with God, which of course is their choice. But some of you are suggesting the Biblical testimony, as cited and quoted here, from the same New International version as the CF statment of faith uses, then I think you are attacking the Christian faith.
If you wish to attack the Christian faith can I suggest another thread, until something is proven there you need to acknowledge and recognise what the NIV Bible quotes say.


Who&#8217;s attacking the Christian faith? No one I&#8217;ve seen. People are discussing whether the lack of specific mention of same sex relationships means they are immoral to Christians, and some of those people who disagree with the idea are themselves Christians. No one is disputing what words are used in the NIV, but whether those words are enough to make a judgement on something that is barely spoken about. And of course the NIV is just a translation of the bible, not Christianity itself.
 
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KCKID said:
Just for now ...I was simply addressing the OP regarding marriage between man and woman. I never said anything regarding 'my position' on gay marriage.
KCKID,
the thread is asking for scriptural support for gay marriage, not your position in it, God is God regardless of your position.
If there is no support for it then your position is merely based on your own faulty thinking.
Talk about faulty thinking. I said that I was simply addressing the OP ...NOT that I was giving a position. In fact, I went as far as to say that I was NOT giving a position on gay marriage.

Learn to read before you criticize. Thank you.
 
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KCKID,
the thread is asking for scriptural support for gay marriage, not your position in it, God is God regardless of your position.
If there is no support for it then your position is merely based on your own faulty thinking.



In all honestly, God does seem to disprove far more of homosexual relationships than of child marriage. I hope you can understand my disagreement with this.
 
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If God's position is bigoted, prejudice and hateful as some of you think, thats no problem for me, I will stick with God.
On the other hand some have already said, if that is God's position, as it is, they dont want anything to do with God, which of course is their choice. But some of you are suggesting the Biblical testimony, as cited and quoted here, from the same New International version as the CF statment of faith uses, then I think you are attacking the Christian faith.
If you wish to attack the Christian faith can I suggest another thread, until something is proven there you need to acknowledge and recognise what the NIV Bible quotes say.


From the NIV:

"If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember the words I spoke to you: 'No servant is greater than his master.' If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the One who sent me. If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin. Now, however, they have no excuse for their sin. He who hates me hates my Father as well."

- Jesus called Christ
 
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No, both seem to me to be disapproved of.

Child marriage are not disproved of, and were quite accepted back then.

God goes through and tells the people to not have sex with each others wives, or even their animals, but He, in all His wisdom, never says to not marry and have sex with children. Marriage as young as 12 at least were acceptable, and in the Talmud, which discusses the oral law, it was allowed as young as 3 and one day for females. Due to the wording, it does seem a male has to establish himself first before taking a wife (you have to be able to support your wife), so perhaps boys were getting married, but the same is not true for girls. And to top it all off, the only verse that can ever be used to punish raping a child (which really depends if word used for 'forceful sex' means rape or not, which is not a clear as it seems, because they have a different word in Hebrew which more clearly means rape) was a fine and being required to marry the child, though the father could refuse. That seems a pretty clear ok for child marriage.

In fact, getting your daughter engaged should have been done as young as possible, because raping an engaged female (of any age) was punished with death.


The Bible is far more supporting of homosexual marriages than it is UNsupporting of child marriages. If you disagree, take it up with God. Perhaps He'll answer your questions on the matter, cause He isn't really answering mine right now.
 
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From the NIV:

"If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember the words I spoke to you: 'No servant is greater than his master.' If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the One who sent me. If I had not come and spoken to them, they would not be guilty of sin. Now, however, they have no excuse for their sin. He who hates me hates my Father as well."

- Jesus called Christ


Funny how that can be used by both sides of the argument.
 
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From the NIV:

"If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.

Jesus forgot to mention that sometimes the world hates people for being insufferably obnoxious. Being a follower of Jesus doesn't cure this condition -- in fact, it's been known to exascerbate it.
 
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If there is no support for it then your position is merely based on your own faulty thinking.

If your position is that if there is no biblical support for a thing then that thing must be wrong, then how do you justify doing anything that isn't explicitly mentioned in the bible? Talk about faulty thinking.

ETA: I just realized how horrible my command of the English language really is. :(
 
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What are you talking about? Divorce is accepted in Islam, are you talking about certain practices in Christianity by certain churches?

What I'm saying is, if you're in a homosexual relationship and you want to get married, don't go to the masjid, synagogue, or church and expect to have the usual marriage ceremony. It goes against the teachings of all 3 religions and I wasn't literally saying that said places of worship are ours and not the homosexuals.

Many churches are gay affirming, and don't see homosexuality itself as a sin, and certainly not in a loving relationship.

However, because my home church split in 2 over whether homosexuals should be allowed in their membership which resulted in half of the congregation leaving to form a no-gay-dewds church, because I mistrust many Christians because they obsessed with the sins of others, and so rarely about how they can act in love, I don't currently go to church.

I certainly am not going to join a church to take great wedding picture (admit it - some straight girls do this.). I would probably prefer a justice of the peace. My brother has an MDiv, and when asked if two people came to him and asked if he would marry them, he saiid that he would talk to the couple, see if they are ready for this, and if they were, he would do it.
This is a person who has studied the Bible pretty intensely. but I would prefer it to be simple, apparently you can ordained online, we could go down to the beach, and a simple ceremony, and then a small party to celebrate..
 
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Indeed. But how to get past the cognitive disonance that convinces them they are right?

(Fun note, the primary symptom of cognitive disonance? Illogical non sequitor type responses to questions or information that draws attention to conflicting prefered beliefs. Sound familiar?)
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Pray humbly and earnest for the Holy Spirit to soften their hearts, and believe.
Remember that they are not your enemy, but your neighbor, you brother, and if we just can find love for that person, pray for more and God will give it freely.
 
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Funny how that can be used by both sides of the argument.


Oh really?

Show marriage as same gender ANYWHERE in the new testament then.

Otherwise, if you cannot, the the marriage as Jesus defined it Christians: "man and woman" are the persecuted and righteous ones.

So please . . . if you will be so kind? :preach:
 
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Oh really?

Show marriage as same gender ANYWHERE in the new testament then.


Show me a reason to care.

Otherwise, if you cannot, the the marriage as Jesus defined it Christians: "man and woman" are the persecuted and righteous ones.

Even the insufferably obnoxious ones?
 
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