my son who is 3 said to me the other day "mummy i dont have a daddy"
my sons father and me were never married and we broke up after our son was 3 months old. and he did use to see him but his dad really uite simly hasnt bothered. and then i met a guy who my son called dad we got married and then he got up and left 5 months ago. and my son hasnt askd to go look for him (like he used to ask when he went away for weekends) and when he asked wheres daddy i would simple say hes away i dono where he is. and my son totally accepts this.
but now he comes out with this sentance every now and then and it breaks my heart cause hes techincally got 2 dads and neither are there for him.
my sons dad's mother still sees my son she takes him every week and she has a boyfriend. the last time my son came home from being at there house the nextday he jumps in to my bed as he always does and he says to me "mummy, john (his grans bf) said ive got a daddy and i dont have a daddy" so i said to him "well u do have a daddy but u just dont see him" and he sais "no i dont john says every ones got a daddy but i dont"
i honestly had no idea what to say to him
it relly breaks my hear because his daddy was a great dad but then he cant remember him he can just remember my ex who wasnt a good dad at all.
i asked my son "do u want a daddy?" and he said "no"
if my sson had answered yes to this i was goingto take him to where his dad works and say to him look et the finger ou and be a dad this boy needs you.
which i am still considering doing.
has any one got any advice
my sons father and me were never married and we broke up after our son was 3 months old. and he did use to see him but his dad really uite simly hasnt bothered. and then i met a guy who my son called dad we got married and then he got up and left 5 months ago. and my son hasnt askd to go look for him (like he used to ask when he went away for weekends) and when he asked wheres daddy i would simple say hes away i dono where he is. and my son totally accepts this.
but now he comes out with this sentance every now and then and it breaks my heart cause hes techincally got 2 dads and neither are there for him.
my sons dad's mother still sees my son she takes him every week and she has a boyfriend. the last time my son came home from being at there house the nextday he jumps in to my bed as he always does and he says to me "mummy, john (his grans bf) said ive got a daddy and i dont have a daddy" so i said to him "well u do have a daddy but u just dont see him" and he sais "no i dont john says every ones got a daddy but i dont"
i honestly had no idea what to say to him
it relly breaks my hear because his daddy was a great dad but then he cant remember him he can just remember my ex who wasnt a good dad at all.
i asked my son "do u want a daddy?" and he said "no"
if my sson had answered yes to this i was goingto take him to where his dad works and say to him look et the finger ou and be a dad this boy needs you.
which i am still considering doing.
has any one got any advice