I read once that if you don't feel you can pray, to just sit in your prayer corner. If nothing else, it reminds you that you are not alone in all of your pain and depression--the Trinity, the Theotokos, your Guardian Angel and all the other angels, and the saints are all around you, and prayers are going up for you, even if you can't pray. My prayer life isn't all that great either--it isn't what it should be. Maybe we can encourage each other in this.
This is a good suggestion. Thank you.
Handmaiden of God, my thoughts are with you. I pray that a solution will be found to your family situation. Have you talked with your priest/spiritual father about this? Does he have any ideas?
Prayer.
He said I'm dealing with an irrational person, so not to reason with her, and when she starts with me to just say "God bless you" and walk away. Unfortunately what she does a lot of times is she calls my father to file a complaint with him. My response to him was "If she has a complaint with me, let her speak to me about it like and adult, not go through you like a child."
He just wants peace.
So, I lock myself in my room. I leave my room as little as possible but to go to school. When I leave the house, I stay out for as long as I can.
I've had to make myself very small.
As a person who is gregarious, chatty, and outgoing by nature, it's been very difficult.
In addition to this there is a social factor. When I moved away from New Jersey 2 years ago, my friends moved on with their lives and many have gotten married or are in relationships.
There is no one my age at Church, and I don't have the money to join a bunch of new clubs.
Although I respect Command0's suggestion of getting a part-time job, I make out better on Unemployment, and would prefer to collect the benefits as long as I can so I can go to school full time without having to work.
(Yes, I know many students do this, but going back after so many years, it strains the brain differently than when you're 18. Pulling an "all-nighter" isn't quite as easy as it was back then.)
So, this is where I am.
Alone in my room with my cat. Who snores.