Im a teenage guy with a big delema. Im here for opinion, I dont want u to tell me wat to believe cause thats not how I approach my faith; I want your thoughts and opinions on my thoughts.
Bible tells me clearly dont commit adultery and dont be "sexually immoral". Ok I look up adultery in the dictionary and its having sex with people u arent married to, which is pretty simple. Sexually immoral is confusing, but I think I got it, in its relation to me [k Im not lookin to have sex with goats] it seems covered by the adultery thing. The Bible tells me to do lots of things that I do anyways though so this is all really hard for me to handle.
Overall I dont know how to handle the Bible's teachings cause I cant [ok maybe I just really really dont want to] follow it word for word and live like Jesus. It all seems too overwhelming.
OK Im not gonna explain the way I feel completely here, maybe we should just see if we can get some sorta discussion goin here. How far should I go with my girlfreind? I liked [i tend to say loved, but that is debateable] her before I touched her, before I kissed her. I want more outta our relationship then the physical stuff. But when I hang out with her I cant just sit there. I have HUGE emotions for her, and they cant be let out quite without touchin, the way that I see it. Am I supposed to not have a girlfreind if I cant handle this? If so how will I find the right person to marry?
Ok this is confusing thread I know, plz just give me some ideas to go on guys, thanks.
Bible tells me clearly dont commit adultery and dont be "sexually immoral". Ok I look up adultery in the dictionary and its having sex with people u arent married to, which is pretty simple. Sexually immoral is confusing, but I think I got it, in its relation to me [k Im not lookin to have sex with goats] it seems covered by the adultery thing. The Bible tells me to do lots of things that I do anyways though so this is all really hard for me to handle.
Overall I dont know how to handle the Bible's teachings cause I cant [ok maybe I just really really dont want to] follow it word for word and live like Jesus. It all seems too overwhelming.
OK Im not gonna explain the way I feel completely here, maybe we should just see if we can get some sorta discussion goin here. How far should I go with my girlfreind? I liked [i tend to say loved, but that is debateable] her before I touched her, before I kissed her. I want more outta our relationship then the physical stuff. But when I hang out with her I cant just sit there. I have HUGE emotions for her, and they cant be let out quite without touchin, the way that I see it. Am I supposed to not have a girlfreind if I cant handle this? If so how will I find the right person to marry?
Ok this is confusing thread I know, plz just give me some ideas to go on guys, thanks.