What like the neighbours think I'm gay, when just because they never see me with a woman, do I appear with a man, no, duh, go figure, anyway, instead of me for a change, lets hear from Paul, hmm, if I can find it, lol:
Actually, found this, looks interesting:
Question: "What does the Bible say about a Christian staying single?"
Answer: The question of a Christian staying single and what the Bible says about believers never marrying is often misunderstood. Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 7:7-8, “I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.” Notice that he says some have the gift of singleness and some the gift of marriage. Although it seems that nearly everyone marries, it is not necessarily God's will for everyone. Paul, for example, did not have to worry about the extra problems and stresses that come with marriage and/or family. He devoted his entire life to spreading the Word of God. He could not have been such a useful messenger to all of us if he had been married.
On the other hand, some people do better as a team, serving God as a couple and a family. Both kinds of people are equally important. It is not a sin to remain single, even for an entire lifetime. The most important things in life are not in finding a mate and having children, but serving God. We should educate ourselves on the Word of God by reading our Bibles and praying, forming that personal relationship with Him that is so necessary for our salvation (John 17:3). If we ask God to reveal Himself to us, He will respond (Matthew 7:7), and if we ask Him to use us to fulfill His good works, He will do that, too (Ephesians 2:10), whether we are single or married.
http://www.gotquestions.org/single-Christian.html
As for me, have no choice, as said before, too late now, stuck as I am and I have this feeling all the time, that if in the last days, need to be concentrating on that.
Soon as some woman is on the scene on the net, I'm all her first and my site second, which is wrong.
I used to hate it that women said on their profiles I want a man that puts God first.
I used to ask my cousin about it, don't know he would say, have to ask them, cause everyone has different ideas of what they want.
I mean if we watching something on TV, all nice and cosey and cuddled up together, don't want to suddenly hear, 'No come on, 8pm we must go upstairs and pray, and bow down again, every night.' Ritual.
Or because I miss a Sunday at church to get bagged for it.
Having said that, later on realized it has to be and I'm sometimes the one if I sense she is bit, you know, pushing for God, lol.
Because I know without Him in it, won't work at all, puts spanners in the works, so rather have Christ in it.
Then you get the ones, can tell are new to Christianity, or don't take it that serious, say, Christ in the centre of their lives.
Anyway, all food for thought, what was the question again, lol, LOL.
(duh), well you know my memory, something to do with being single and loving it, lol, yeah, hmm, yes and no, freedom great, I decide what goes on my site and when and in control, no arguments, no delays.
But lonely as hell, why God make me so physical, were not for craving affection, not bother me at all who needs women, no offense I'd be sorted and well happy.
But I miss not having anyone to cry with, laugh with, hold her hand, chat for hours with, cuddle with, bathe with, when married of course, lol, so much more.
Anyway, go figure, cause not gonna happen, so game over, next question, lol.