I'm a new Christian, my wife has never really been a christian, she just holds on to bits and pieces of biblical phrases that she uses when it suits her fancy.
I was raised as a christian, but sadly backslid for years. Now after several years, I'm asking my heavenly father back into my life. Of course now it's a a daily struggle, because now I have PTSD from the war, and as a result of the PTSD I feel alienated from God, and a lot of my feelings are suppressed. So, I'm trying to pick up the pieces and get my life back into order. Anyway, I wasn't married when I was much younger and a practicing christian. so, I have a lot of questions about christian marriages. Here is an exerpt from an actual conversation between my wife and I:
Me: Honey, I've done some research and I believe we should start going to that little church on Alantic ave. They teach the Bible there, it's a nice christian church.
her: No, I don't like going to church. You go if you want to. I pray every night before I go to bed, i think god's happy with that.
me: I believe God wants us to go to church, and I believe it's my duty to select a church for our family to go to.
her: Well, you go and take the children if you want. I don't want to go, and it's not your place to judge me.
me: I'm not judging you, but I think we should go together, as my wife you have a duty to submit to me , and I have a duty to spiritually guide this family.
OK, that's roughly what was said. My question is, am I wrong to insist on her going with me to a church? WWJD? Comments and ideas are welcome.
Thanks
I was raised as a christian, but sadly backslid for years. Now after several years, I'm asking my heavenly father back into my life. Of course now it's a a daily struggle, because now I have PTSD from the war, and as a result of the PTSD I feel alienated from God, and a lot of my feelings are suppressed. So, I'm trying to pick up the pieces and get my life back into order. Anyway, I wasn't married when I was much younger and a practicing christian. so, I have a lot of questions about christian marriages. Here is an exerpt from an actual conversation between my wife and I:
Me: Honey, I've done some research and I believe we should start going to that little church on Alantic ave. They teach the Bible there, it's a nice christian church.
her: No, I don't like going to church. You go if you want to. I pray every night before I go to bed, i think god's happy with that.
me: I believe God wants us to go to church, and I believe it's my duty to select a church for our family to go to.
her: Well, you go and take the children if you want. I don't want to go, and it's not your place to judge me.
me: I'm not judging you, but I think we should go together, as my wife you have a duty to submit to me , and I have a duty to spiritually guide this family.
OK, that's roughly what was said. My question is, am I wrong to insist on her going with me to a church? WWJD? Comments and ideas are welcome.
Thanks