invisiblebabe
He will restore the years the locust hath eaten
- Feb 12, 2004
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Your husband is a feline??? I'm confused.
I have to agree... that doesn't sound healthy.I think if you can't trust your best friend and your spouse to even speak when they are in the same room together without you, then you a) need a new best friend, and b) have absolutely no business being married.
My personal opinion is that married couples are better off not having friends of the opposite sex. Better to be safe than sorry.
I would think that it would be ideal to be close friends with one's spouse's close friends just because it would make hanging out that much more fun.
I have to agree... that doesn't sound healthy.
And as long as you and your spouse agree with that rule and really aren't bitter about it, then more power to you. I wouldn't get into a relationship where that was the rule, though.
No one was directing anything toward you personally.Let me restate my opinion on this issue. My husband is friends with my girlfriends. When we are all together they converse or when they call, my husband will talk to them on the phone for a minute until he hands the phone to me. However, they don't usually go and hang out with eachother without me or do they usually call one another just to chit-chat. I am also friends with my husband's friends in the same manner that he is friends with my friends.
However, I am not comfortable with him having female friends that are seperate from me and he is not comfortable with me having male friends seperate from him.
Like I said before - different strokes for different folks. I do not appreciate people calling my husband and myself immature etc. None of you have walked in our shoes and your rude opinions on what works best for our marriage are not needed. Thanks (That was not directed towards you, Mskedi)