- Aug 1, 2006
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There is this guy name Ronnie that i met at work, and last year he told me that he was homeless and couldnt afford a place to stay. Well my dad is our boss and i talked bout Ronnie's situation and we decided that he could live with us until he was able to get back onto his feet.
Well that first few months went pretty well, until one day at work he pulled me aside and told me that he like me and wanted to marry me. I told him that it would never happen because for one he was 34 and i am 17 and i have no feelings like that towards him at all, well he got really angry. Now he just randomly comes up to me and says that he will Marry me wether i like it or not, and that someday i will be his.
Everytime i would date someone he would try to find a way to brake us a part. He never accomplished that because i would always tell the guy who i was dating about Ronnie.
A couple of months after that accored he started to say that he loved me. He would also hide in rooms across from me and just watch me. I caught him in a room across from me at work, with the light off, and i asked him what he was doin and he said that he was cleaning. I mean who cleans with the lights off??
I told my dad what was goin on and he yelled at Ronnie and told him that he was going down the wrong path and that i was way to young for him and all that stuff. Well he didnt listen to him and he kept bothering me for over a year, he never did physically hurt me but he did say things that he shouldnt have said. I was still afraid to be around him and i didnt feel safe at work or at home.
About 2 weeks ago he started tellin lies about me to my brother Brandon. Brandon went to my dad and told him everything that Ronnie had said and my dad finally kicked him out of the house, but he still works with me. Now he is really mad at me for what happened and i feel that i have to watch my back evertime im at work and the sad thing is that my work is at my church. I hate feeling scared in my own church.
One day he told me that i better do what he says because he has a sword in his car. At first i didnt believe him beacause who carries a sword in there car??? but then i saw it..it wasnt huge but it was big enough to hurt me.
So what do i do? i mean i cant quit my job cause i love working at my church and being around my church members plus i need the money, and i have told my dad that he still bugs me when we work, but he cant just fire him because of some regulation or something like that. Please give me some advise and please pray for me cause i really dont know what to do
Well that first few months went pretty well, until one day at work he pulled me aside and told me that he like me and wanted to marry me. I told him that it would never happen because for one he was 34 and i am 17 and i have no feelings like that towards him at all, well he got really angry. Now he just randomly comes up to me and says that he will Marry me wether i like it or not, and that someday i will be his.
Everytime i would date someone he would try to find a way to brake us a part. He never accomplished that because i would always tell the guy who i was dating about Ronnie.
A couple of months after that accored he started to say that he loved me. He would also hide in rooms across from me and just watch me. I caught him in a room across from me at work, with the light off, and i asked him what he was doin and he said that he was cleaning. I mean who cleans with the lights off??
I told my dad what was goin on and he yelled at Ronnie and told him that he was going down the wrong path and that i was way to young for him and all that stuff. Well he didnt listen to him and he kept bothering me for over a year, he never did physically hurt me but he did say things that he shouldnt have said. I was still afraid to be around him and i didnt feel safe at work or at home.
About 2 weeks ago he started tellin lies about me to my brother Brandon. Brandon went to my dad and told him everything that Ronnie had said and my dad finally kicked him out of the house, but he still works with me. Now he is really mad at me for what happened and i feel that i have to watch my back evertime im at work and the sad thing is that my work is at my church. I hate feeling scared in my own church.
One day he told me that i better do what he says because he has a sword in his car. At first i didnt believe him beacause who carries a sword in there car??? but then i saw it..it wasnt huge but it was big enough to hurt me.
So what do i do? i mean i cant quit my job cause i love working at my church and being around my church members plus i need the money, and i have told my dad that he still bugs me when we work, but he cant just fire him because of some regulation or something like that. Please give me some advise and please pray for me cause i really dont know what to do