This is a rather touchy subject, but one I feel I must bring up
[SHADOW=purple]First Some Background[/SHADOW]
I was raised Lutheran from the day I was born. I have two very loving parents who raide me in the church and taught me to love god. In Junior High I seperated myself from the church. (and have been struggling ever since to come back) My boyfriend, who I love very much, and I have been together for almost seven years now. Our relationship has had it's ups and downs, but we are very much in love
[SHADOW=deeppink]Now For the Problem[/SHADOW]
This past August Ryan and I moved in together. I discussed this heavily with my parents, my family, my pastor at church and friends. I feel this was the right decision as I love him. Now here's where many of you will probably disagree with me. We have a very sexual relationship. It's not so much sexual as "making love" and we discuss this often. I have actually discussed this with my pastor back home (10 hours away) and he and I have had many conversations over this.
I strongly feel that I am doing nothing wrong. I love Ryan, he loves me and we plan on someday marrying (legally in the state of Colorado where we live we are Common Law MarrieD) and I feel that my relationship with God is growning since we have been together, because I feel closer to him. HOWEVER. I don't think he has something against our sexual relationship; I think that he sees our side and understands...although many of you probably disagree.
[SHADOW=purple]First Some Background[/SHADOW]
I was raised Lutheran from the day I was born. I have two very loving parents who raide me in the church and taught me to love god. In Junior High I seperated myself from the church. (and have been struggling ever since to come back) My boyfriend, who I love very much, and I have been together for almost seven years now. Our relationship has had it's ups and downs, but we are very much in love
[SHADOW=deeppink]Now For the Problem[/SHADOW]
This past August Ryan and I moved in together. I discussed this heavily with my parents, my family, my pastor at church and friends. I feel this was the right decision as I love him. Now here's where many of you will probably disagree with me. We have a very sexual relationship. It's not so much sexual as "making love" and we discuss this often. I have actually discussed this with my pastor back home (10 hours away) and he and I have had many conversations over this.
I strongly feel that I am doing nothing wrong. I love Ryan, he loves me and we plan on someday marrying (legally in the state of Colorado where we live we are Common Law MarrieD) and I feel that my relationship with God is growning since we have been together, because I feel closer to him. HOWEVER. I don't think he has something against our sexual relationship; I think that he sees our side and understands...although many of you probably disagree.