In total control of all events? No. In control if we are in His care, trusting in Him and relying on Him? Yes.
You are asking a question that will get different responses in other forums. Basically, those who are of a Calvinistic background (reformed theology) see God as in total control. They even believe that God has already decided who is to get saved and who isn't. The other side of the theological coin is sometimes called "Arminian" and it takes the position that man has a free will and power over the direction and outcome of ones life.
To say that God is "in control" implies that all events are God's will, whether they be good or bad. But God has given man responsibility for his life and by doing so He has given us the ability to affect it's outcome. Thats why there are Bible promises, covenants, and faith. Because we have an enemy, we've been given authority, and its up to us to take the spiritual initiative to bring change.
Case in point: God hates abortion. He raises up a presidential candidate who opposes abortion and would fight to end it. But people, Christians included, vote for the other candidate. Is God in control, or is man?