isabella1
All is in God's hand!
I just wanted to add my personal story of saying yes to life two times.
When I was 12 weeks pregnant (the first time), i started to have serious health problems and complications with my pregnancy. As testing went on for many weeks, by the 20th week the doctors discovered that my baby was going to have congenital heart defects, abdominal defects and have down syndrome, (with lots of surgeries in the future) so they offered and encouraged me at 20 weeks a termination. I laughed at them and said, "Termination is not an option in my life". I believe they were flabbergasted by my comment. There was one Attending, two residents, three students and two nurses that all crammed in my clinic exam room to break the news to me. I think they all wanted to see what my dramatic reaction was. I think I disappointed them.
On my next pregnancy, they discovered the same exact diagnosis for my baby as they did in the first one, but this time much earlier. This time I told all the others to kindly stay out of my exam room, and told the attending doctor that only he could come in to talk to me about the results. Again I was offered and encouraged a termination. I gave the exact same answer as the first time with a smile.
Both pregnancies were very bad, with me being sick and in the hospital most of the time. Both were emergency c-sections. But with my first, they almost lost both me and my daughter (I wont get into details), but I was in the hospital for over two weeks post partum. And had many complications post partum.
With my second, I got very sick again, but the Lord called my little girl home at three days old. The beauty of it was so many united in prayer, and put aside their differences for a moment in time. And my little Hanna passed away in my arms where she belonged. The sad thing was I went home from the hospital with empty arms.
The doctors told me not to have any other children or I may lose my life the next time.
I have one very beautiful and spirit filed daughter, who has been through many surgeries and health crises, but has taught me so much about life and love, and she serves the Lord in so many ways that I cant even begin to comprehend. She is a pure soul, and I am privileged to have been chosen by God to be her mother.
When I was 12 weeks pregnant (the first time), i started to have serious health problems and complications with my pregnancy. As testing went on for many weeks, by the 20th week the doctors discovered that my baby was going to have congenital heart defects, abdominal defects and have down syndrome, (with lots of surgeries in the future) so they offered and encouraged me at 20 weeks a termination. I laughed at them and said, "Termination is not an option in my life". I believe they were flabbergasted by my comment. There was one Attending, two residents, three students and two nurses that all crammed in my clinic exam room to break the news to me. I think they all wanted to see what my dramatic reaction was. I think I disappointed them.
On my next pregnancy, they discovered the same exact diagnosis for my baby as they did in the first one, but this time much earlier. This time I told all the others to kindly stay out of my exam room, and told the attending doctor that only he could come in to talk to me about the results. Again I was offered and encouraged a termination. I gave the exact same answer as the first time with a smile.
Both pregnancies were very bad, with me being sick and in the hospital most of the time. Both were emergency c-sections. But with my first, they almost lost both me and my daughter (I wont get into details), but I was in the hospital for over two weeks post partum. And had many complications post partum.
With my second, I got very sick again, but the Lord called my little girl home at three days old. The beauty of it was so many united in prayer, and put aside their differences for a moment in time. And my little Hanna passed away in my arms where she belonged. The sad thing was I went home from the hospital with empty arms.
The doctors told me not to have any other children or I may lose my life the next time.
I have one very beautiful and spirit filed daughter, who has been through many surgeries and health crises, but has taught me so much about life and love, and she serves the Lord in so many ways that I cant even begin to comprehend. She is a pure soul, and I am privileged to have been chosen by God to be her mother.
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