I wouldn't want to marry a man who thinks himself a martyr for taking me as his wife.
The Crowning
After prayers are offered on their behalf, the groom and bride are crowned by the priest "In the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit". These crowns have two meanings. First, they reveal that the man and woman, in their union with Christ, participate in His Kingship. Second, as in the ancient Church, crowns are a symbol of martyrdom. The word "martyr" means witness. The common life of the bride and groom is to bear witness to the Presence of Christ in their lives and in the world. Martyrdom is usually associated with death. So the reality of God's Kingdom in the life of the husband and wife will necessarily take the form of dying to one's self, to one's will, and the giving of one's life totally to the other, and through the other, to Christ.
A man who wants to be a husband does so much more than a guy who dates a girl and has sex with her. He commits so much more. Do women recognize and respect this sacrifice that a man makes, or do they see it as an infringement on their freedom? Maybe that is what it is from their perspective.
That's very interesting. Thank you for sharing that.I find this interesting as in my faith, we believe that marriage is one way to become a martyr.
I took the liberty of copying and pasting a portion of the wedding ceremony in an Orthodox Church:
Mskedi, if you found that interesting, you would definitely enjoy learning about the marriage ceremony in its entirety from the Orthodox perspective. It is such a beautiful experience as it is full of spiritual meaning and symbolism.
Diana, I like the way you offered that example. It was a good one.
I have really liked the Orthodox services I've attended (my best friend is Orthodox, so I go when I visit him), so I probably would really like to hear about the ceremony. I'll be sure to ask the priest about it the next time I'm out for a visit.
A man who wants to be a husband does so much more than a guy who dates a girl and has sex with her. He commits so much more. Do women recognize and respect this sacrifice that a man makes, or do they see it as an infringement on their freedom? Maybe that is what it is from their perspective.
A man who wants to be a husband does so much more than a guy who dates a girl and has sex with her. He commits so much more. Do women recognize and respect this sacrifice that a man makes, or do they see it as an infringement on their freedom? Maybe that is what it is from their perspective.
Has it ever crossed your mind that women also make sacrifices?
Most of us do it out of love and don't expect pat on the backs for it.
If you love someone you make sacrifices. That's just the way the world turns.