Married men, of any or no religious background, do you believe you are, or should be, the boss of your home? By "boss", I don't mean a dictator, but rather the primary decision maker for the family. Please share your reasons.
Married men, of any or no religious background, do you believe you are, or should be, the boss of your home? By "boss", I don't mean a dictator, but rather the primary decision maker for the family. Please share your reasons.
Married men, of any or no religious background, do you believe you are, or should be, the boss of your home? By "boss", I don't mean a dictator, but rather the primary decision maker for the family. Please share your reasons.
Married men, of any or no religious background, do you believe you are, or should be, the boss of your home? By "boss", I don't mean a dictator, but rather the primary decision maker for the family. Please share your reasons.
I've been married over thirty years and both my wife and I are Baha'is.. When we married we agreed to abide by the will of God but neither of us are the "boss".. over time we have agreed to acknowledge though that each of us have specialities or some talents that qualify us for certain roles. I generally handle taxes and budget but we consult on large purchases and usually find agreement between us...we consult with each other and have common goals. She reared the children and prepares food.. I wash the dishes. She shops for most items and selects entertainment... In the house and garden lately we share chores and duties: I water the plants and veggies and she plants planned the Garden.. I add touches that I like..so we are a team most often and support each other.
- Art
I am the decision maker.
I always decide to do what my wife wants.
I don't know what are those rules? I a muslim and I have no propblems at all with the islamic rules but actuely I do believe that islam is the most religion that gives women it's full right,actuely , we have part of teachings in islam called women's fiqh= it talks about every thing concerns women and every thing here means realy every thing .and we have a very tall sura in Quran called womenIslam has even stricter rules concerning women
For what it's worth:
It isn't uncommon for women bossing their husbands around. However, if it comes to the question of what scriptures have to say, then it is clear that women should submit to their husbands.
Paul, the apostle of submissions, makes it clear. He also tells women to keep quiet during church meetings. 1 Corinthians 14:34-35
Islam has even stricter rules concerning women, which can be witnessed every time when watching news from the Middle East. The Qur'an advises women too to submit to their husbands:
"And as for those (women) on whose part you fear disobedience, admonish them and leave them alone in their beds, and chastise them. Then if they obey you, seek not a way against them. Surely, Allah is High, Great."
Chapter 4:35 (AL-NISA)
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