guitarragirl
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am I using the right word...harping? I don't know, but anyway,
I've ordered some of the books that were suggested here. It is really hard to get my husband to read with me. How do you get your husbands on the same page?
My husband uses pinching as a way to end a temper tantrum, and I've told him that it's not acceptable to me, and that it's child abuse to me. He told me he wouldn't do it anymore, but today he did it again. We were leaving the toy section of the store and my husband wanted Baskin Robbin's, but our son didn't want to leave the toys. Of course I forgot to try the "bye-bye toys method...duh!" I guess my husband wanted to be able to enjoy his Father's Day treat, so it was a good time to pinch to calm him down. He said our toddler behaved right away after that, but I told him the end doesnt justify the means.
How do you get your husband's on the same page? How do you no undermine your husband when he's disciplining? Please help me!
I have so many questions but don't really know how to organize them all right now. Thanks for having this thread here as a resource!
I've ordered some of the books that were suggested here. It is really hard to get my husband to read with me. How do you get your husbands on the same page?
My husband uses pinching as a way to end a temper tantrum, and I've told him that it's not acceptable to me, and that it's child abuse to me. He told me he wouldn't do it anymore, but today he did it again. We were leaving the toy section of the store and my husband wanted Baskin Robbin's, but our son didn't want to leave the toys. Of course I forgot to try the "bye-bye toys method...duh!" I guess my husband wanted to be able to enjoy his Father's Day treat, so it was a good time to pinch to calm him down. He said our toddler behaved right away after that, but I told him the end doesnt justify the means.
How do you get your husband's on the same page? How do you no undermine your husband when he's disciplining? Please help me!
I have so many questions but don't really know how to organize them all right now. Thanks for having this thread here as a resource!
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