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Amhacajo

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Hi to everyone.

I haven't really been around posting much lately but I have been checking in and reading now and then and thought I might give an update on how things are going and if anyone else has any encouraging breakthroughs please feel free to post them.

Myself, I have been plodding away quite well I think. In saying that though I haven't had any major hurdles or 'new' situations in my life to deal with (just this week I do :sorry:). Church which was one of my major anxiety provoking situations is becoming better and better all the time. I have been making more of an effort to become involved with conversations at coffee time and have actually been enjoying that. In saying that I still find it difficult to think about the prospect of having people over for dinner or lunch which is something I guess I would really like to be able to progress to at one point. One day at a time I guess. I do beleive my confidence is growing in all areas though.

One other thing that may be positive is that I am waiting for applications to open on an internet course (a study that is being conducted by one of the universities here) related to SAD that is coming up very soon. They are going to contact me when it does open and hopefully I meet the criteria to participate.

Hoping and praying that others here are progressing each day towards recovery in some form. For me it feels like a slow wet weekend but I'm trying to stay positive in that one day I'll be look back and appreciate where I've come from.

God Bless:wave:
 

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Hi that's great to hear you're doing better!!! I have been getting a lot better with handling my anxiety. I'm trying not to let my fears run my life anymore. I went through such a hard time with the anxiety at the beginning of the year, I'm determined not to let myself fall into that hole again.
I definitely still come on here to check for new threads and see how everyone is doing. I think it's important for people to know that are new to anxiety or having trouble with it that there is ways out of it, and there are people recovering.
 
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I HAVE BEEN ACCEPTED INTO that internet course I mentioned above to help with the social anxiety. I got the email to say that applications were open and bit the bullet and applied and they rang today to follow up on some info and I just gotta fill in all the consent forms blah blah. I am excited and nervous at the same time. My heart was absolutely pounding talking to this total stranger on the phone but I got through it and it's actually happening. I have come a long way (I think anyway) and I'm really praying that this course will help even more. The feedback from the phone call sounded really positive.

I hope that things are positive for everyone else. I'd love to hear some more on how people are doing. Even if it seems like only a minor positive thing to you. It is really encouraging to hear that other people are having victories in their lives
 
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Myself, I have been plodding away quite well I think. In saying that though I haven't had any major hurdles or 'new' situations in my life to deal with (just this week I do :sorry:). Church which was one of my major anxiety provoking situations is becoming better and better all the time. I have been making more of an effort to become involved with conversations at coffee time and have actually been enjoying that. In saying that I still find it difficult to think about the prospect of having people over for dinner or lunch which is something I guess I would really like to be able to progress to at one point. One day at a time I guess. I do beleive my confidence is growing in all areas though.

God Bless:wave:

Coffee time...and let's shake hands with our neighbors time. I force on my happy smile and hide... and make myself be friendly...and it is so difficult sometimes!!!

Praying for the both of us, sis!
 
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I HAVE BEEN ACCEPTED INTO that internet course I mentioned above to help with the social anxiety. I got the email to say that applications were open and bit the bullet and applied and they rang today to follow up on some info and I just gotta fill in all the consent forms blah blah. I am excited and nervous at the same time. My heart was absolutely pounding talking to this total stranger on the phone but I got through it and it's actually happening. I have come a long way (I think anyway) and I'm really praying that this course will help even more. The feedback from the phone call sounded really positive.

I hope that things are positive for everyone else. I'd love to hear some more on how people are doing. Even if it seems like only a minor positive thing to you. It is really encouraging to hear that other people are having victories in their lives

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Hi to everyone.

I haven't really been around posting much lately but I have been checking in and reading now and then and thought I might give an update on how things are going and if anyone else has any encouraging breakthroughs please feel free to post them.

Myself, I have been plodding away quite well I think. In saying that though I haven't had any major hurdles or 'new' situations in my life to deal with (just this week I do :sorry:). Church which was one of my major anxiety provoking situations is becoming better and better all the time. I have been making more of an effort to become involved with conversations at coffee time and have actually been enjoying that. In saying that I still find it difficult to think about the prospect of having people over for dinner or lunch which is something I guess I would really like to be able to progress to at one point. One day at a time I guess. I do beleive my confidence is growing in all areas though.

One other thing that may be positive is that I am waiting for applications to open on an internet course (a study that is being conducted by one of the universities here) related to SAD that is coming up very soon. They are going to contact me when it does open and hopefully I meet the criteria to participate.

Hoping and praying that others here are progressing each day towards recovery in some form. For me it feels like a slow wet weekend but I'm trying to stay positive in that one day I'll be look back and appreciate where I've come from.

God Bless:wave:

So glad you are pressing on dear sis:hug: Hope your run with the study brings positive results for you. Havn't been here in sooo long, but think and pray for everyone here often:cheer:
 
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That's wonderful news! I'm glad to see many of you doing better with your anxiety. After 3 months of teaching, mine is like gone--- though I still get nervous when talking to my Headmaster or Supervisor. I guess that'll take time to realize they don't think I'm a complete idiot :D

Even talking to my parents is getting easier--- I'm trying to distance myself because of issues with them, but I'm also standing up for my relationship with Sean more.

It's helpful to read through the threads, see how we've grown and healed, keeps us thinking positive and we should always remember we're heading UP in our lives :)
 
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Yes well I saw some new posts here and thought I'd do another update myself.

I got accepted into the internet course and it is pretty much at the end of it now but even in saying that it is an ongoing project. I have learnt about my cognitions and am working on changing them and also have an exposure stepladder that I'm trying to work on. Working from the bottom up to the triggers that seem unbearable.

I've lost weight and am now walking everyday. The days where I wake up and feel like not going I try and push myself to because I just know that my mental health almost depends on it. I feel so much better. When I am feeling tension I find that if I can go for a walk it helps take the edge of it off.

So now I am able to go to the ladies prayer meetings and bible studies with relative ease. Still feel a bit odd in some social situations and even at church but it doesn't seem like the end of the world anymore.

All good news

I hope everyone else can be positive too. Little baby steps is all it takes. Have faith and trust that Jesus is there with you 'cos I know that He is.
 
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