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BlessedLYT

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I'll start off by sharing a little of my struggles. I am sick and tired of denying myself sexually. It feels like nobody else is in this whole world. I have sexual needs and there is no Godly outlet for them. I am really tired of waiting for a wife who may never show up. This is not my biggest or only struggle or trial, but it is on my mind right now. I feel like a fool for denying myself when it is almost certain she hasn't. I don't feel like serving God in this manner is worth it to me. I feel like I have been misled.

How wonderful it is that you are still pure. If it is any help she is pure through God for you and you know what there are alot of women saying the same thing "There are no pure men". You never know what God has for you, I messed up with one person thinking that and I regret it. I wish I could have what you have. You are very blessed, you overcame the temptations of the flesh.Be Blessed.
 
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I know what you mean. I don't expect to marry a virgin either, although I would love to. I agree that it's really sad that premarital sex is considered the norm among Christians. I don't believe that's the way God intended it to be.

The girls that I hang out with are virgins, though, and they're 26-30, which is in your age range (I assume), so there is some hope. But anyway, my point was just that I hope you stay strong, because think of how sad you would be if you did give in and then ended up marrying a girl who had saved herself for you.

Either way, I hope you find her soon. :hug:

And believe me, there are many days where I pray, "God, you're going to have to either give me even more grace or send me a husband soon." ^_^

This made me smile.
 
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How wonderful it is that you are still pure. If it is any help she is pure through God for you and you know what there are alot of women saying the same thing "There are no pure men". You never know what God has for you, I messed up with one person thinking that and I regret it. I wish I could have what you have. You are very blessed, you overcame the temptations of the flesh.Be Blessed.

I don't know how pure I am, but there are at least certain things I have reserved for my wife.
 
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I don't know how pure I am, but there are at least certain things I have reserved for my wife.

I have learned I must do the same. I messed up so bad and it took me a long time to forgive my mistakes. I had to learn that God forgives me as soon as I ask it is I who cant forgive myself. I pray I will not ever make that mistake again. To be able to control your flesh is a great thing that can not be overlooked. All over the tv sex is put on a platter. That is why I am going to do the 30 days no media fast. I know this will be a good thing. When i cut out secular music Icould feel the change in me. Look at me rambling, sorry about that. Be blessed
 
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