I just want to add something:
Every single girl that I've dated that I "stole" from somebody else (even if their relationship was in it's death throes) ultimately ended up leaving me for somebody else.
Loyalty is a very important thing indeed.
And if you were the one who was in the position of losing your SO to the charms of another, what do you think an appropriate Christian response to that situation would be?
Oh that hurts. I think the number one rule with girls should be; be a sister to your friends. I would never betray a friend.
I'd assume, if they were easily swayed by the charms of someone else, my partner or that person I was salivating over, isn't the one for me.
So serious. It definitely has a way of proving whether or not someone really likes you or if it's just a passing infatuation.You don't have any control over how other people are going to conduct themselves, and really it doesn't even matter. What matters is whether you can trust him/her, and I'd rather know sooner than later.
So....I say if there's someone that wants to steal 'im away? Let 'em try.
The phrases "survival of the fittest," "may the best man win," "love comes with no guarantees," etc. are a few of the things that come to mind when I think about this topic, but they do nothing towards making my blood boil over it any less.
But another part of me says that I should 'defend my lady's honor' by tearing the infidel in question's arms out of his sockets.
I thought the OP was talking about youMy previous response still stands as the best way not to get ulcers over it, but I don't think that you should necessarily pretend that it doesn't bother you, either. As long as you're not blaming the SO (yup, I've had that happen to me) for the jerk's behavior.
I guess, as with most things, communication is key.
Plus, I don't know a girl who doesn't think that at least a little bit of jealousy (when called for) is hot. In fact, I'd be concerned if it didn't perturb my guy even just a little bit.
(I too am curious if there is any scripture that addresses this.....)
Yup, you're bad.I think this may make me a bad person, but I sort of did this to a friend of mine. The guy she was after couldn't stand her and she was incredibly obsessed to the detriment of her emotional well-being. I liked him, so I kind of got in the middle of things. Interestingly, it all worked out--I have a boyfriend, she's found someone else to obsess over (that doesn't hate her this time), and we're all great friends.
I think it's a pretty crummy predicament, no matter which way you slice it.
Not that dating is all about tests, but it is the time you spend getting to know someone that you could potentially entertain the idea of spending the rest of your life with.
Chances are, if you find them attractive inside and out, so will someone else and it's something you'll always have to deal with. Better to know now how they'll respond, right?
You don't have any control over how other people are going to conduct themselves, and really it doesn't even matter. What matters is whether you can trust him/her, and I'd rather know sooner than later.
So....I say if there's someone that wants to steal 'im away? Let 'em try.
QFT!I don't think it's possible btw to "steal" someone from someone else. Either she digs you or she doesn't so if your friend hits on her and she goes for it, then she just wasn't that into you. If she was (that into you), no man could "steal" her away.
Yep.I don't think it's possible btw to "steal" someone from someone else. Either she digs you or she doesn't so if your friend hits on her and she goes for it, then she just wasn't that into you. If she was (that into you), no man could "steal" her away.