This is not about the divorce and remarriage issue. That's for another thread. But i was curious about people's thought on what God wants in an abusive relationship. The reason i bring this up is because people are very quick to bring up abuse in relationships when you do talk about divorce. So i thought that if it is such and important issue to bring up then, well its important enough to get thoughts on what you think God wants us to do in these situations. Since i have not really been around it and i feel people that general go through this are too tied to the event i thought i would start with how i see it and then go from there. I truly and trying to take this from a non-emotional side and try to see how God wants us to see it as Christians.
1 Peter 4:19 says "Therefore, those also who suffer according to the will of God shall entrust their souls to a faithful Creator in doing what is right."
Heb. 10:32 says "But remember the former days, when, after being enlightened, you endured a great conflict of sufferings."
Matt. 5:12 says "Rejoice and be glad, for your reward in heaven is great; for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you."
Matt 5:44 says "But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you."
Matt 18:15-20 says "If your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two more with you, so that BY THE MOUTH OF TWO OR THREE WITNESSES EVERY FACT MAY BE CONFIRMED. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. Truly I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall have been bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth shall have been loosed in heaven. Again I say to you, that if two of you agree on earth about anything that they may ask, it shall be done for them by My Father who is in heaven. For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst."
The issue to me, and i could be very well wrong, is handling it and a Godly way. From many of the people i have come in contact with, and many of them probably were not Christians i have talked to, they almost had a hate for the person. This is not of God. I am not saying everyone feels this way. Sure there is pain and we Christians should be there to help them. But it is quite similar to persecution if handled properly, i think.
1 Peter 4:19 says "Therefore, those also who suffer according to the will of God shall entrust their souls to a faithful Creator in doing what is right."
Heb. 10:32 says "But remember the former days, when, after being enlightened, you endured a great conflict of sufferings."
Matt. 5:12 says "Rejoice and be glad, for your reward in heaven is great; for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you."
Matt 5:44 says "But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you."
Matt 18:15-20 says "If your brother sins, go and show him his fault in private; if he listens to you, you have won your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two more with you, so that BY THE MOUTH OF TWO OR THREE WITNESSES EVERY FACT MAY BE CONFIRMED. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. Truly I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall have been bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth shall have been loosed in heaven. Again I say to you, that if two of you agree on earth about anything that they may ask, it shall be done for them by My Father who is in heaven. For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst."
The issue to me, and i could be very well wrong, is handling it and a Godly way. From many of the people i have come in contact with, and many of them probably were not Christians i have talked to, they almost had a hate for the person. This is not of God. I am not saying everyone feels this way. Sure there is pain and we Christians should be there to help them. But it is quite similar to persecution if handled properly, i think.