Do you think you make enough effort to look attractive? I'm just wondering. I know a lot of people don't, and then they wonder why they're single
Depends on the day! And I don't look good for others... I like to dress nice and put make up on because it makes ME feel better and more confident, not so someone will notice me.
I used to date pretty guys... guys who tried a little too hard, I think. Obviously that never worked for me, so I have started to realize, even if he isn't the cutest guy, he can be the sweetest, and treat you the best. And I think the more you get to know someone, the more physically attracted you can become to them, even if you don't think they are smokin' hot!
(P.s. Hi everyone. I missed you guys!)
I do try to an extent. It can be difficult when your job requires you to get down and dirty with the animals in scrubs. I can't say I put a whole lot into my appearance, but at the same time, I want a relationship based on more than that. If that makes me be single longer until I can find someone who can see me as beautiful inside and out, even when I'm a mess from work, then so be it, because I know there are those people out there.
I think people make the assumption that just because you caught their eye, that makes you a superficial person. I don't think that's necessarily the case. Maybe, it's that extra little bit of effort that you put in one day that pushes them over the fence to say "Okay, I HAVE to go and try and talk to him/her." Just because you find somebody who TRIES attractive doesn't mean that you can't appreciate her if she doesn't try so hard one day. I dunno, I think people are too hard on folks who want somebody who tries to keep up their appearance.
Ah okay. Yeah.
This is where that saying comes from, "I don't love her because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because I love her."
That's terrible. I hate guys that push the makeup scene.I heard a pastor say one time about women and makeup "every old barn can use a little paint". Well, this old barn that is falling apart needs a lot of paint.
haha.. Thanks. But alas, they are not.Your so cute you should have women falling all over you.
I don't have a problem with the guy wanting to me look nice, assuming he appreciates me just as much when I don't try so hard. My biggest concern would be "what about when I'm 80 and wrinkley... I don't want to put on 5000 facial creams a day to keep him happy"
Its true... if I go swimming with this barn, is it going to surface as a condo?Haha, true. Some barns put on waaaaaay too much paint and you're left wondering, what does that barn really look like when it wakes up in the morning?