well i'm new here and have posted a few replies that were challenged...lol...i'm not use to a lot of confrontation but i hope to able to define my beliefs and opinions more. so here's a topic i'll strike up: if you heard a rumor that your friend's boyfriend was cheating on your friend, would you tell your friend- even though it's a "rumor" and you don't know if you can trust the source so you don't know if it's true?