God has given me the strength to do it, and I am now happier at 32 yrs old and celibate (until the right girl comes along), then I've been in my entire life. God's Holy Spirit is always with me, and with the touch of God, sexuality is completely secondary. My flesh doesn't have much of a chance at anything sinful with the Holy Spirit around, and I like it this way. The guilt is gone. No more hating myself. No more feeling like a loser because I pushed God out of my life. At this point in my life, even being celibate for such a long time (its been 6 yrs now), I feel fullfilled. God takes care of His children. I am living proof.