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OK it knows pretty much what the conservatives and fundies and all that lot would say about such things but it bes really curious what the self-defined "liberal" Christians have to say concerning this subject. At what point bes one doomed for eternity? Doomed as in the other "d" word which might get reported or censored and which means "judged & condemned". Maybe we should break the topic down a bit:
  1. Bes it possible for any living person to exist in a state of irreparable fall from grace (never mind how for now)?
  2. If so, what sort of thing would you consider to put a person there? E.g. what type of sin or how often repeated that sin or whatever?
  3. What signs or symptoms would be recognizable by that person to himself or herself so they would know that bes the case?
  4. What signs or symptoms might be recognizable IN that person by OTHERS tipping THEM off that this bes the case?
  5. Would being in such a state automatically include demonic inhabitation or control or possession or whatever you wish to call it? (Those that don't believe in such things or in demons at all naturally need not answer this)
  6. IF -- or rather, "given" -- a situation where someone bes in that state, would God keep others ignorant to the fact and/or "conspire" (so to speak) with others to DELIBERATELY keep or stop them from solidly confirming this reality to the one IN that state?
  7. If so, why would He do this, keep solid confirmation of that truth, away from one living in it?? For example, as a method of attempting to restrain what evil they might prove capable of performing with that knowledge??? as a form of mercy to the one who literally has no hope?? or what?
Would be curious to see how you all "tick" upstairs ... how you parse questions and ideas like these. C'mon sharpen that wetware & get posting!! Bonus respect for those that use Scripture; after all we bes talksy from them Xtian perspective on this stuffs. ^_^
 

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Teshi, it would be interested to hear your reasoning on that, though. Nobody needs restrict themselves to some preset format here. The questions bes for consideration only (and obviously, only to those who consider them even relevant). Heck, criticize the questions themselves if you like -- you won't offend Moriah as long as you don't stoop to personal digs in the process. :D
 
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I'm a universalist, so no, I don't believe in the concept of a true, eternal damnation (I'm pretty sure that word's okay around here). Beyond that, though, I try to avoid speculating about the afterlife or the spiritual condition of others. This life is what matters right now.
 
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OK it knows pretty much what the conservatives and fundies and all that lot would say about such things but it bes really curious what the self-defined "liberal" Christians have to say concerning this subject. At what point bes one doomed for eternity? Doomed as in the other "d" word which might get reported or censored and which means "judged & condemned". Maybe we should break the topic down a bit:
i'll try to take a stab at it. been awhile since i've taken the initiative with such topics.

  1. Bes it possible for any living person to exist in a state of irreparable fall from grace (never mind how for now)?
don't know how to answer this one. if we have the ability to rise up from that fallen state, than does the fallen state exist or is it just a state of mind that a person holds, and nothing of a real spiritual truth about the state of mankind?

  1. If so, what sort of thing would you consider to put a person there? E.g. what type of sin or how often repeated that sin or whatever?
honestly, i would imagine sin wouldn't be issue if we can get out of whatever "fallen state" we're supposed to be in. i mean, if the fallen state is defined by sin, and if that fallen state doesn't exist or is no more, the next assumption would be, that sin would be non-issue.

  1. What signs or symptoms would be recognizable by that person to himself or herself so they would know that bes the case?
  2. What signs or symptoms might be recognizable IN that person by OTHERS tipping THEM off that this bes the case?

a peace of mind that they don't have to worry about doing wrong, evil, sin is all that i can imagine. recognizable to others? i can't answer that one because i'm not good at judging the state of others so i really don't know.

  1. Would being in such a state automatically include demonic inhabitation or control or possession or whatever you wish to call it? (Those that don't believe in such things or in demons at all naturally need not answer this)
for the sake of the discussion, going with the idea that demons are real and affecting us, how could they enter in our lives if we have conquered the fallen state, or if that fallen state is nothing more than an illusion?

  1. IF -- or rather, "given" -- a situation where someone bes in that state, would God keep others ignorant to the fact and/or "conspire" (so to speak) with others to DELIBERATELY keep or stop them from solidly confirming this reality to the one IN that state?
  2. If so, why would He do this, keep solid confirmation of that truth, away from one living in it?? For example, as a method of attempting to restrain what evil they might prove capable of performing with that knowledge??? as a form of mercy to the one who literally has no hope?? or what?
i'm curious about this one myself. i don't know how that would work, but lets look at the Bible with some of this.

Jesus appearing before women in the bible after the resurrection. during a time that the women were not thought high of, and not taken serious, what logical sense does it make to appear to the outcast of society only and not to the people that can make initial changes for the movement. i mean its fine and dandy for a romantic mythological story but it makes no sense to perform a miralce that would sustain the movement , show it to the outcasted believers, the down and trotted only and not the people that need it as much as the believers needed it, ie the Pharisees, the Roman Empire, the people of power.

all the times Jesus told people to not tell about the miralces he does. why? why would the Son of God make an attempt to hold back this state that He is in that can enrich the lives of everyone to bring healing, understanding, enlightenment? i mean if it is mere based upon the lines that he is trying to be meek and humble to fullfill the predictions of because that is how he is, that's ridiculous reasoning as far as i'm concerned.

so i find it odd that we see a couple of major beyond human altered states, states would rightly assume is not fallen, but yet, it seems like it is meant to be hidden from most, and seen and believed by the already biased believers.

so with this case that you ask in the question i would have to guess that yes, it would be hidden from the majority of the world. and that the only people that would know is that person that is out of that "fallen state" and whoever buys his story.

Would be curious to see how you all "tick" upstairs ... how you parse questions and ideas like these. C'mon sharpen that wetware & get posting!! Bonus respect for those that use Scripture; after all we bes talksy from them Xtian perspective on this stuffs. ^_^
well hopefully i added good contribution to discussion and hopefully i stayed on topic. :)
 
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I do not accept the premise of the OP as "doomed to eternity or damnation". That is not to say that the question should not be asked as it is born out and a symptom of many inconsistencies of Christian doctrine.

Christian teaching need s to move away from the stark division that is transmitted in many teachings: that upon Judgement Day, the human race will be separated into two groups- those that will be saved and experience eternal bliss in Heaven and the other set who will be damned and experience eternal torture in Hell. I squirm at the division this makes in the human psyche and the deep seated anxiety that is created about their etrnal "fate"...whichever it is. These division is set in the face of yet more ambiguity as mainstream Christianity teaches that God's love is unconditional, and despite this, He only accepts those into heaven that have accepted Jesus and have repented their sins...the rest are damned.

I consider these teachings the gospel of God's Conditional love with the many threats of damnation that await those that do not follow prescribed criteria. This has whole implications on how Christians, seekers and the rest are accepted in fellowship- a powerful gathering tool that is the hallmark of Christian worship and faith: "Do you believe like I do?" or are your actions and standards in line "with my own"?
 
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I'm a universalist, so no, I don't believe in the concept of a true, eternal damnation (I'm pretty sure that word's okay around here). Beyond that, though, I try to avoid speculating about the afterlife or the spiritual condition of others. This life is what matters right now.
I feel the same.
 
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I believe that God wants to reconcile the whole world to God's self.

Anyone who says that they know who is eternally saved and/or eternally condemned is talking through the seat of their pants.

I am not a universalist only because I respect the sovereignty and justice of God.

That said, I don't worry too much about the next life: mine or anyone else's. There's too much uncertainty there. This life is the only one we can be sure of.

Salvation means being safe. Anyone who is worried too much about the next life is neither saved nor safe.

In this life, I try to live in ways that please God, attempting (and often failing) to walk in ways of love, compassion, forgiveness and justice. Since I cannot do anything to earn my eternal salvation, I trust God for the next life.

Mine and everyone else's.
 
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I am a "conservative" or a "fundy" in that I believe that some people will be saved and live eternally in the presence of the Lord, and others will be lost. What happens to the lost, I am not clear on Biblically, but I do have these convictions:

A person is only lost when to be saved would mean an existence that is even *more* miserable. For example, some people just couldn't hang where there would be nothing that brought them pleasure in this life--drugs, illicit sex, violence, whatever. If those are the things they like and want, then they would not be happy in the Biblical description of Heaven.

God does not want anyone to be lost. A person is not lost because God rejected him/her. A person is lost because he/she did not accept salvation.

God does not (don't get me started on a certain church in Topeka that pickets funerals) "rejoice" when someone is lost or when calamity strikes. Rather, God grieves because He has lost one of His children.

These are the only things I can say with a reasonable amount of certainty.

PS: I think the OP wants to know:

1. Can a person who was once saved be lost?
2. Are there people who live in this existence who are in a permanent, irredeemable, state of being lost?

Answer to #1: Yes, I think so, but only by the person's own conscious choice. I believe the person must *know* what is at stake and *choose* to renounce salvation for all eternity, fully aware of doing so.

Answer to #2: I wonder too, when I look at the Charles Mansons and Timothy McVeighs of the world. And it's questions like that, that make me glad I'm not God. Someone may look to us as if they have passed into the state of being irredeemable, but God knows better than we do, and if there is a way to reach that person, God will do it.

Should any individual worry that "I may have crossed into the state of being irredeemable"? No. Even caring about it is evidence to show it hasn't happened. There are people, I believe, who have crossed that line, but they wouldn't care. They would be able to talk openly about it, curse God to His face, and acknowledge that they are eternally lost, without even flinching. Anyone who wonders about his/her salvation, is not hopelessly condemned.
 
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  1. Bes it possible for any living person to exist in a state of irreparable fall from grace (never mind how for now)? Yes. I believe that damnation is a real possibility.
  2. If so, what sort of thing would you consider to put a person there? E.g. what type of sin or how often repeated that sin or whatever? I want to quote Jesus regarding my answer to this question: "Truly I tell you, people will be forgiven for their sins and whatever blasphemies they utter...but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit can never have forgiveness, but is guilty of an eternal sin." - Mark 3.28-29, NRSV Notice how Jesus' quote is a statement of universal salvation given a qualifier
  3. What signs or symptoms would be recognizable by that person to himself or herself so they would know that bes the case? I think its prudent to point out that any answer given to this is sheer speculation and that speculation is not usually beneficial. Now, if I had to speculate, I would say that I believe a person would commit the unforgiveable sin by somehow shutting off their souls capacity to be responsive to the Holy Spirit. I believe the Holy Spirit communicates within every soul, since everyone is a creation of God, and that everyone's spiritual path (regardless of what "religion") involves an interweaving of one's experiences, cosmology, beliefs in addition to their inner soul's witness to truth. So, in other words, the unforgiveable sin is not so much a rejection of so-called "specific revelation" rather "general revelation" so to speak.
  4. What signs or symptoms might be recognizable IN that person by OTHERS tipping THEM off that this bes the case? Once again, sheer speculation. Were I to speculate, I would say that people who are sociopaths may be a manifestation - i.e. people who can specifically indulge in any activity, even though they do know right and wrong, they are somehow numbed to it all... the complete absence of a consciousness so to speak. However, I point out that sometimes it can be very amazing and surprising just who God breaks through to... some of the coldest and numbest people have made some very interesting and ironic conversion stories. So, in the end, as it says in the book of Samuel, God sees the heart whereas we see the outside.
  5. Would being in such a state automatically include demonic inhabitation or control or possession or whatever you wish to call it? (Those that don't believe in such things or in demons at all naturally need not answer this) Daimons haunt us all... I don't think they are mutually exclusive. While I feel that being damned would imply an empty host for daimons to have free reign - I think that we are all legion to an extent.
  6. IF -- or rather, "given" -- a situation where someone bes in that state, would God keep others ignorant to the fact and/or "conspire" (so to speak) with others to DELIBERATELY keep or stop them from solidly confirming this reality to the one IN that state?No. I don't believe the Holy Spirit ever stops witnessing to all people... and while some people have gotten frighteningly close to the point of no return, the Holy Spirit has eventually won. Rather, I would say that the gift of the Holy Spirit is like a spring of life that never shuts off... and, all of us are born into a state of experiencing this spring of life... but those who choose to stop bathing, do so DELIBERATELY.
  7. If so, why would He do this, keep solid confirmation of that truth, away from one living in it?? For example, as a method of attempting to restrain what evil they might prove capable of performing with that knowledge??? as a form of mercy to the one who literally has no hope?? or what? God's mercy lies in that damnation means annhilation.
 
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A person is only lost when to be saved would mean an existence that is even *more* miserable. For example, some people just couldn't hang where there would be nothing that brought them pleasure in this life--drugs, illicit sex, violence, whatever. If those are the things they like and want, then they would not be happy in the Biblical description of Heaven.
How can you be certain that bes the case, though? Would it not be much more realistic to recognize their reasons for liking such things have to do with being born into this present world in its present mixed state of darkness and pain, and among the strife of contending forces, and perhaps in some cases, the most abject poverty, or degradation, or brutality or abuse or some other deprivation, what has caused them to NEED these kinds of things to make life pleasant for themselves -- but that given a paradise environment where all the foul, crooked, hurtful, ugly factors that bent them that way got removed and THEY TOO could experience the joy of loving and being loved, of friendship without bitterness or thorns, of health and happiness unspoiled and untainted -- who bes to say they would not be just as fine to do without dope or promiscuity or whatever if all their OTHER needs, which went UNMET in THIS world, bes met in the "next" world thus REMOVING the complexes that drove them to non-paradisical coping mechanisms?

Think about it & give Moriah your answer. ;)
 
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By the way if it does not respond to every post here do NOT think your contribution has been either overlooked or bes not valued!!! Everyone whats posted so far has given interesting responses and much to think about. :hug: :hug: :hug: {{{{{{{{{{{threadlings}}}}}}}}}}}} it might or might not respond in due time.... might just ponder. Thanks!
 
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How can you be certain that bes the case, though? Would it not be much more realistic to recognize their reasons for liking such things have to do with being born into this present world in its present mixed state of darkness and pain, and among the strife of contending forces, and perhaps in some cases, the most abject poverty, or degradation, or brutality or abuse or some other deprivation, what has caused them to NEED these kinds of things to make life pleasant for themselves -- but that given a paradise environment where all the foul, crooked, hurtful, ugly factors that bent them that way got removed and THEY TOO could experience the joy of loving and being loved, of friendship without bitterness or thorns, of health and happiness unspoiled and untainted -- who bes to say they would not be just as fine to do without dope or promiscuity or whatever if all their OTHER needs, which went UNMET in THIS world, bes met in the "next" world thus REMOVING the complexes that drove them to non-paradisical coping mechanisms?

Think about it & give Moriah your answer. ;)
:) As I say, this is one of those times I'm glad I'm not God, and these are not my decisions to make.

If someone is driven to such things by abuse, as opposed to enjoying them out of a pure evil intent, then I would call that a different story. But it still seems to me that someone who does not want to praise the Lord and fellowship with others would not be happy in the Christian Heaven, because that's what is done there.
 
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God does not want anyone to be lost. A person is not lost because God rejected him/her. A person is lost because he/she did not accept salvation.
But how are people supposed to "accept salvation" when they don't have any reason to believe that they need saved from anything.
 
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:) As I say, this is one of those times I'm glad I'm not God, and these are not my decisions to make.

If someone is driven to such things by abuse, as opposed to enjoying them out of a pure evil intent, then I would call that a different story. But it still seems to me that someone who does not want to praise the Lord and fellowship with others would not be happy in the Christian Heaven, because that's what is done there.

You may be unpleasantly surprised to find out the Kingdom Come will NOT be catered exclusively to one people group with one specific subculture where everyone likes exactly the same music and everyone dresses in the same style and enjoys the same pasttimes. You might be unpleasantly surprised to find yourself sharing quarters with those exceedingly different from yourself and your subcultural substrata and whatever substrata within it you occupy.

Just a heads up.

As for "pure evil intent"? Don't be ridiculous. NO such thing exists. Evil bes always an effect, never a cause. No wonder some of you humans bes so confused in assessing one another. You constantly indulge the compulsion to ascribe intent and motive, purposefulness and blame, where none exists. How could you possibly ever hope to comprehend the truth that slices through your pride like a sharpened scalpel through sarx mortis.
 
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God does not want anyone to be lost.
A person is not lost because God rejected him/her. A person is lost because he/she did not accept salvation.

The above two statements bes inherently contradictory and incongruous. Since when bes God incapable of accomplishing His will and doing HIS pleasure?

Lovebirds, you clearly need to go back and study some more. You have overlooked one vital, indispensible factor in this entire equation and thus gotten the wrong of them parse.
 
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But how are people supposed to "accept salvation" when they don't have any reason to believe that they need saved from anything.
That is a key question. :thumbsup:

(I know fundies' opinions are not welcome in this thread, so I'll shut up now. :sorry:)
 
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That is a key question. :thumbsup:

(I know fundies' opinions are not welcome in this thread, so I'll shut up now. :sorry:)
Actually as the OP, it would be interested to hear your opinion. Provided you can share it without resorting to slamming the OP or anyone else.
 
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Actually as the OP, it would be interested to hear your opinion. Provided you can share it without resorting to slamming the OP or anyone else.
Of course. I don't come here with the goal of attacking anyone. :)

I'd like to ask for a little bit of clarification first. You mention "falling from grace". By that, can I assume that your questions are specifically about those who are already saved? Or are they on a broader scale? Thanks.
 
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