This pro-life nurse is faced with quite an interesting dilemma. A friend of mine recently ran into this when her job as a temp worker for offices called on her to work as a receptionist in an abortion clinic. She took the job and later told me about it.
This was my emailed reply to her (note that this friend is a Christian who considers herself pro-life; this letter will not be really all that relevant to you if you are not pro-life or a Christian)
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(Names changed to respect privacy)
This week's reception work was probably just an isolated incident, but I just wanted to take a moment, as a Christian friend, to give you some counsel should you ever be asked to work at an abortion clinic again.
I want to start off by saying that I dont doubt the sincerity of your pro-life beliefs. I realize you probably felt you didnt have a choice since it was your job requirement to work at the TA clinic that day. You are not the first Christian I have met who has been in the situation where the professional duties required of them conflict with their moral convictions.
For future notice, as a Canadian citizen you do have the right to refuse work that compromises your religious convictions. No place of employment has the jurisdiction to discriminate against you based on your religious beliefs.
As a Christian who was asked to work in an abortion clinic, I realize you were put into a very tight spot. You want to be professional, but at the same time Im sure you probably felt uneasy about giving your services to the clinic. Morally speaking, working at that clinic would be like being an accessory to murder. Childrens mothers would be coming to you and you would direct them down the hall towards the people who would tear them apart and kill them. Understandably, this was probably not a pleasant thing for you to do.
A friend of mine works in a counseling facility that requires she give women the details for where and how they can obtain an abortion. When we discussed her duties I tried to help her see the situation in a different light. I told her If we were talking about toddlers, instead of the unborn, and women were coming to you and saying Ive made my choice, I want to have my toddler killed, can you show me where to go to have this done? (assuming toddler killing were legal as abortion is today) morally speaking, would you be ok handing that woman the information for a hit man who would rip the child apart and suck her into a vacuum cleaner? My friend let out an emphatic Of course not!!! I then asked her If you really believe that the unborn are human beings like that toddler, why are you assisting these women in having them destroyed?
Of course there is are the obvious points that you made, that if you dont do it someone else will, and that abortion is an act that is currently legal. However, both facts are irrelevant to the question of a whether or not a Christian should be involved in helping the people who are performing an act that is listed under the seven things that are detestable to the Lord (Proverbs 6:17 NIV) While your professional duty may require you to play a small role in the in an evil procedure, Gods law, which says that thou shall not shed innocent blood is higher. You have a moral duty as a Christian to stand up for Gods truth and His laws. The laws of the land, and particularly of the work force must be secondary if they go against Gods laws.
You mentioned, when we briefly spoke about this at Britannia, that someone (a colleague? Supervisor?) had mentioned something about I wondered how you would react to working there. Obviously he knows that youre a Christian and he was watching to see your response. If this happens again, you have a great witnessing platform an opportunity to speak up for Gods truth and tell him, that you hold Gods law and moral code above this countrys. When you can tell him that because youre a Christian you will not have any part, no matter how small, in the shedding of innocent blood what a testimony that could be.
And while again, it may be true that someone else will do it if you dont, and whether or not you are there these children probably would have been killed anyway; at least you dont have to live with the knowledge that you, as a Christian assisted the perpetrators of an ungodly act. You dont have to live with the knowledge that while you were probably the only person in that clinic who believed that unborn child had value, that you sat by and did nothing while he was ushered to his death. I say this as gently as I can, but Leslie, for all the good you did those children who died that day, you might as well have been pro-choice.
I realize theres probably little you actually could have done in the way of speaking out while you were in that clinic. I suppose you could always have told the first woman where she could get help to carry through the pregnancy (a crisis pregnancy center) or encouraged her to reconsider her decision. You certainly would have been kicked out then and there but who knows if that might have caused the childs mother to think twice. But thats neither here nor there.
If you turned down a future job at the TA clinic or similar environment might you lose your job? Perhaps. Legally they cant do it because of regulations forbidding religious discrimination, so if they were to do it, theyd have to make up some other short coming to terminate you on. It happened to my friend Rachel: She worked in a doctors office and was asked to book an appointment for a client at an abortion clinic. She basically said no sir, as a Christian I cant morally justify scheduling anyone for a procedure that I believe kills a human being. She was told that it wasnt her place to judge peoples beliefs (although by saying that, the doctor was in fact judging hers) and she was terminated.
Did Rachel regret her decision? No way. Losing a job is nothing next to the 315 children who lose their lives every day in Canada. As Christians weve been told to expect persecution and be willing to stand up for Gods truth even to the point of death. Weve been told to be Gods salt and light in this world, not to just go along silently with what the world is doing.
I think of the Christians back in Nazi-ruled Germany. Those, like Corrie Ten-Boon who chose to speak up for the voiceless in their society by protecting Jews, stood to lose more than jobs their very lives were at risk. Modern Christians have the same duty to defend the helpless. Proverbs 24:11-12 reads Rescue those being led away to death; hold back those staggering toward slaughter. If you say But we knew nothing of this, does not he who weighs the heart perceive it? Does not he who guards your life know it? Will he not repay each person according to what he has done?
Remember that Jesus told us that whatever we do for the least of these, we do it unto Him. How we, as Christians, love and treat the least in our society, the unborn, is a reflection of how we love Him. As Christians we have a moral duty to love our neighbours as we love ourselves, and this includes our unborn neighbours. We cannot, as many other Christians did in Germany, stand silent while evil is being done against them. We must speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves'. (Proverbs 31:8)
I hope that this letter has served to help you reconsider your views and attitudes towards our Christian duty with regards to abortion. Im sure your heart is in the right place and that you are sincere in your desire to love God and serve Him. I welcome your thoughts and comments regarding this letter (or anything else for that matter) I will be praying for you as I know you seek to glorify God in your present and future work endeavors.
In Christian love, Kristine Kruszelnicki
PS. It may help you, as it did me, to take abortion out of the abstract and see it for what it really is: a violent act that kills a baby. The following link will break your heart as well as open your eyes to the reality that is going on around us. I encourage you to take a look.