Vow - I caught your comment about your DD's wedding plans in the other thread and wanted to share this with you.
My oldest was almost 23 when she eloped last year - it was one of those situations where it would have been difficult to have certain relations at the wedding, and the more she thought about it the more she worried about what might happen, if certain people showed up.
She wanted *me* to give her away (not her dad) which we knew would definitely cause some problems ....
Long story short - since she didn't want any "nightmare" incidents they eloped to Niagra Falls (with our blessings) and later we got to watch the video of the ceremony (very, very nice - I loved the preacher they got - he was great) and then this year she gave me a photo collage of the wedding pictures that I picked out (for Mother's Day) ...
I think she did herself a favor and saved herself a lot of heartache/headache. A wedding should be special and it should be exactly what the bride/groom want - no more - no less.
My oldest was almost 23 when she eloped last year - it was one of those situations where it would have been difficult to have certain relations at the wedding, and the more she thought about it the more she worried about what might happen, if certain people showed up.
She wanted *me* to give her away (not her dad) which we knew would definitely cause some problems ....
Long story short - since she didn't want any "nightmare" incidents they eloped to Niagra Falls (with our blessings) and later we got to watch the video of the ceremony (very, very nice - I loved the preacher they got - he was great) and then this year she gave me a photo collage of the wedding pictures that I picked out (for Mother's Day) ...
I think she did herself a favor and saved herself a lot of heartache/headache. A wedding should be special and it should be exactly what the bride/groom want - no more - no less.