RIGHT NOW I AM SIXTEEN... AND I FEEL SO IN NEED FOR A BOYFRIEND, I JUST WANT A GUY THAT IS SO IN LOVE WITH CHRIST AND WANTS TO SHARE THAT DESIRE WITH ME... ALL THE GUYS AT MY SCHOOL ARE SO IMMATURE, AND I DON'T KNOW ...MAYBE I AM GOING THROUGH A STAGE OF DESPERATION... I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.. SHOULD I BE LOOKING? SHOULD I RELAX? WILL THIS PASS OR AM I JUST NUTTS!??
SOMEONE HELP!
well...its not a passing phase, though it is something youll learn to handle more over time. We all (well most of us) need that someone special in our lives. They are a blessing, sadly, most guys at your age ARE immature and arent really enterested in Jesus. You just have to be strong and focused on whats truely important to you, if you just cant find that special someone yet then you just have to settle within yourself that youll be ok till he comes along. But please...don't become desperate, for your sake, dont settle for some guy whos less than you truely deserve, which is the best by the way.
The teen years are so turbulent and your changing and learning so much, hard times for sure...but be assured, youll be a very diffrent person than you are now, say 2 or 3 years from now because we change and grow so much during these years. These troubles and struggles within teach us what people can't.
If your patient and live right that right guy will come along when the time is right, so be happy, there are lots of things we would like to have...but if we cant, we can make the best of it and find other things to occupy us to be happy about...or we can stay depressed and hate the situation and be unhappy all the time.
Its just something you have to go through unless you want to become a used car who gets hurt and abused instead of just waiting on the right one.
take care, hell show up one day when the times right.
but also... the old very often say that youth is wasted on the young. you are in carefree years where you can do pretty much do what you want to and are truely free...in 5 or 6 years this will all change, you wont have this freedom or free time anymore and mistakes and less than good choices can really hurt you. So please, dont waste these last precious years on having to have some guy or your not happy...
the day will come when you dont even have time to hang out with friends or they wont be able to hang out with you becuase youll have tons of bills and have to take care of yourself. Have fun, be happy...dont waste these last easy carefree years "needing" a man in your life to be happy. That "man" wont always be flowers and peaches, hell bring new problems and things youll have to deal with too, while your still so young, have all the fun you can dont become dependent on having a man when that wont always make you happy anyway.