Spirit of Rejection.

This almost sounds to me like social anxiety or some form of anxiety. Being paranoid that no one likes you, or feeling that everyone is watching you.

Praising4eva said:

Just wondering if people here think that having a Spirit of Rejection is always demonic in nature or if you think it can just be emotionally based in past experience.

I know someone who feels that no-one in church likes them and finds it hard to get close to people. I'm not sure they like themselves that much! But I do know that they have said they feel like they aren't liked in.

They don't want to talk to the pastors about it, as I've suggested, as they are scared that the pastors will decide they are in need to deliverance and they don't want to or need to go there apparently.

So general thoughts on the Spirit of Rejection? Thanks.

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It can actually be both. Usually rejection is rooted from our childhood. For me rejection came about when my father left when I was four years old. I was devestated by him walking out on me and my mom. When he left he walked right past me without even saying goodbye, I love you, sweetie this has nothing to do with you, etc. He just walked right past me like I wasn't there. Right at that moment I was emotionally tramatized. And I can remember the negative thoughts the enemy started planting in my mind. Your father doesn't love you, your the problem that's why he left and could walk right past you without saying anything to you. Then to make matters worse, I had an older brother and sister from his first marriage and he would spend time with them but not me. The enemy had a field day with me with that. Then it get really bad when my dad moved in with another lady who had her own kids and he took care of them and still spent no time with me, didn't provide for me, etc. That's alot for a child to have to deal with and because of it and the lies the enemy was feeding me, my emotional pain, turned into a spiritual/demonic attack. I wanted to be loved so bad that I looked for love in all the wrong places, my morals kept declining as my sin continued to progress. Yet I was being rejected by people all around me. No matter what I did to show them that I loved them, cared for them, etc I was cast aside. It wasn't until I was in my early 30's that I started asking myself what is wrong with me. Why do I do these things, why do people always push me aside, etc? Then I read No More Sheets and I cried out because I was fighting those same demons and they gained entry to me from the young age of 4 and they were out to destroy me. God then walked me through the painful process of rebuking, canceling and facing my pains, hurt, frustrations, anger, etc. and it wasn't until that I got down right real and ugly with God that I was delivered spiritually and emotionally.

This young lady has a lot of pain in her and she needs someone to display God's love her unconditionally. To walk her through her process so she can get to the point that she will truly go to God and pour out to Him all that mess. When she can do that He will turn her mess into a message. Now if God calls you to be her true friend, you need to understand that she will not know how to be a true friend too you. When you have been rejected all of your life and people genuinely care about you, you don't know how to receive and those spirits can convince you that these people are out to hurt you. Your words and intents will be twisted and it can be very frustrating but if you walk in God's love, you will be albe to see right past it and forgive and still love the hell right out of them.

Pray for her as God directs you and understand that she didn't get messed up overnight so it's going to be a process to deal with all of those layers of years of pain. Continue to plant and or water seeds of encouragement, love, understanding, appreciation, etc. God will give the increase!!!!!

God Bless!!!!

The best thing you can do for them is be loving and really care. (Making sure they stay out of danger is a good start IF that is a concern).
Being a real friend takes a lot of energy and time... but you already care or else you wouldn't have posted this thread.

Most "demonic" stuff is simply "allowing" satan and his crew free reign into and around our lives. That doesn't mean that a person is nessessarily possessed... but more likely has retained "thoughts" planted inside them (by you-know-who), dark thoughts on which they dwell upon, probably because no one has ever shown and really explained the TRUTH to them (you'll want to bring along a truckload of patience and long-suffering for this!).

His,
Rev