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I wanna cut.
Its seeming like such a pointless battle. Once a cutter, always a cutter. I've been trying to stop for like a year or more now.

& nothing I post on here gets acsepted, I know bout the whole triggering thing, I try not to!

giving up.
 
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Now now now... :sigh:

I wanna cut.

come on guys u dont have to do this... u can get thru it... think what u will feel like if u do it

Its seeming like such a pointless battle.

is it really a pointless battle tho? is it pointless to be fighting for a happy healthy life, not to mention a better relationship with God

Once a cutter, always a cutter

wrong wrong wrong. u will get thru this n then u will look back and laugh at the day u felt so hopeless that u had to write this

I've been trying to stop for like a year or more now.

i have been trying to stop this for over two years so dont u start giving up... i am not trying to compare just letting u know that u are not alone

& nothing I post on here gets acsepted

really?

I know bout the whole triggering thing

well thats good but its not the only thing you know

I try not to!

keep trying... it will get harder for a while but then it will get easier

giving up.

i sure hope not.

remember how u feel after u have done it
remember God doesnt want to see u hurting
remember how far u have come already :)

Laura
 
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once a cutter, always a cutter

yeah, i tried to deny it too. but i notice now that that person who told me didn't know of the Lord and Savior, who takes away the pain. but it's a long long process. and the more pain and hurt, the longer it takes to heal.
 
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I don't self-injure and feel a little like a fraud for saying it, but I'm not sure I believe the 'once a cutter always a cutter' concept. I have friends - all of different ages and backgrounds - who were, at some point, self-harmers. I know their journeys weren't easy in any sense...but they got there. They're not cutters anymore and have learned different ways to cope with the stresses and struggles life brings. I think that this is what we need to aim for - teaching our minds to jump to a safer form of coping and not 'I need to cut'. It's hard...but it's worth it.
 
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I guess just to reinforce what Steffi said, it's true :) It will always be a part of your in a way, since it's a part of who you ONCE were... but you don't have to always be that person and always have the temptation to. I admit that I used to self-injure but through help from family and friends, I've gotten through it, and can honestly say I do not feel the temptation to hurt myself or feel triggered at all anymore. It is possible, and whilst it can be a difficult journey to get to that point, it's SO worth it :hug:

You guys are so awesome!
 
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I feell like doing it now

i used to.
and stopped
but iv started again

and now have like over 30 cuts in about 4inches of skin]
and that was only in a few days.

i really feel like doing it now
i get this feeling in my arms
making me want to,more and more

=[
xxxx
 
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