Need a lift from the being at home blues

It sounds like an adjustment time is in order. There probably is some "mourning" of loss of the sense of self that you had developed. Although I am sure you love your new child- is there a sense of "been there, done that, why am I here again?"

With the better weather coming it will be easier to get out and about. Art Museums, Zoo, walking "downtown" where ever that is for you. Get a garden going, and have the little one "help" with that. May add a new puppy too so you both have someone to "take care of". And don't forget to get out to "Moms" things either at your church or park district. You need to interact with other folks with little kids. I loved being the "older" mom.

I agree with what BeanMak has offered. I think you're going through an adjustment needing time to transition into it.

Asdie from the other suggestions: I'd also recommend the local library (many have storyhour), maybe start a Mom's bible study/prayer group during the day with other moms while the children play and even enrolling your newest addition into some type of toddler program-- sports, non-profit/organized play group, etc.

Praying for you and your family.

Maybe put the child in kindy/daycare for a few hours a week and get out and have some 'you' time. Maybe time for studying for a new career while your at home (through correspondance).

I think the key thing is to get out of the house and build relationships with other mums.

If you are missing mental stimulation, then getting involved with church ministries can fit the bill. Bible study is fantastic because it gets the brain cells going and encourages you in your faith. Running a playgroup can be fantastic too, as you are giving as much as you are getting.

I am so glad to hear you are doing better!

I once felt like I had post-partum depression, and it ended up needing time to myself. Make sure you're getting time to yourself to do something you enjoy!

Also, I agree with the suggestion of getting together with other moms. There's just something that fills you up when you're together with people who understand what you're going through. I just went on my annual "business trip", a mom's conference, to refuel and learn and have fun. I've gone 7 years, now, and never regretted it. There are a couple of these in October in Minnesota and Michigan, as well as a "mom's day out" on the West coast. You can find information on this at www.hearts-at-home.org

I can also recommend the book Taking Care of the Me in Mommy by Lisa Whelchel (a speaker at the conference). It's a great read, not difficult and easy to read in "snatches", with lots of suggestions to try until you find one that works for you.

I hope this helps.
Rachel

I agree w/ what others have said. I know it took me about 6 months before I began to feel "at home" while I was a SAHM. I'm still home and love it now. Everyday is something new and a wonderful learning expereince for me and my son. I love meeting new moms once I got out there and got to know some. I also got involved in activities like a mommy and me music group and other things. It's fun!!