Have you ever heard a 4 year old child sing: "O how I love Jesus". If not, if you have never known the faith of a child, your really missing out on something. The Bible is very clear that: Children are a blessing from the Lord. But more on that later.
In 1998 I leased a new truck. The reason was, there was so much talk about how Jesus was going to return around the year 2000. I just turned that truck back in, and I bought one that I feel can easily last me for 10 years this time.
For me, the age of grace began at Pentacost. That took place somewhere around the year 30 ad. I believe the age of grace or the church age will last two day in God's timing or 2000 years in our timing. Based on this, I would expect Jesus to return sometime between the year 2020 and 2030.
He could return anyday. We should be packed up, prayed up, and ready to go up at any time. But He maynot come for another 20 years.
For a lot of different reasons, I went to the Philippines to find a wife. I highly recommend it. In fact, I am beginning to think that they should pass a law that no one is allowed to marry anyone from their culture or race. But then I think we should leave people alone to make their own decisions.
The Bible says that in Heaven, we will all be one in Jesus. People of all nations, toungues, tribes, cultures and so forth. We will all be one in Him, of one mind and one accord. I am getting a early start on Heaven by being in a marriage of people from two different races.
Of course you can only do that for a generation or two. If everyone were to do what I did, then very soon we would only have one race. I am not sure what my son is, sense he is a combination of Asian and American. My wife says it goes by culture and where your born. So he is an American.
Any Christian man who wants a wife and who makes a wage about the poverty level can easily go to the Philippines and find a good wife. The Filipino women prefer older men, but they hold Americans in very high regard. MANY of them belive that if an American were to be interested in them, than that is a sign that he is Gods will for them.
For a man who is looking for a wife and he has a fear of rejection, I say go to the Philippines and get a wife. It is very rare for a women there to reject a Christian American man. If she does she will have a very good reason, like she wants someone who is a member of her church or something like that.
Of course women are free to go there and find a husband also. But for some reason, that has just not become popular yet. I don't know why. Maybe it would require the women to be a little bit more agressive than women usually are, because she would have to travel over there.
Of course the Bible teaches it is better to remain single and married people will have some problems in the flesh that single people do not have. But I had a lot of problems with being single also. At least this way I have a companion, even a sister in the lord, as well as a romantic partner. So I have someone to work through those problems with. With the added bonus of someone who keeps my house clean
The reason to stay single is so you can devote your life to God and better serve Him. The second coming is not a reason to not get married. The Bible says they will be getting married and giving in marriage, right up 'tell Jesus comes. Also, fear of rejection is not a reason to stay single also. The Bible says, that perfect love casts out all fear. Thanks, JohnR7
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