I can definitely relate to these responses. Mine is pretty similar.
People do suddenly seem to have expectations of you when you're in your twenties. True, I'm only at the beginning (I'm 21) but I can still feel the pressure sometimes. The funny thing is, most of the pressure is what I put on myself. I feel like (at 21) because I'm not in a relationship, that I'm "behind" all the other college kids my age somehow. Like when it comes to dating, I'm afraid I'll be seen as developmentally immature or something like that. As stupid as it sounds, I wonder if some of my friends think that about me. On the other hand, I also shouldn't care about what they think.
Otherwise, I like being twenty-one. I don't worry too much about living on my own or anything like that, because (in northeastern USA where I live) very few young adults can actually afford their own place. Everything is mind-bogglingly expensive.
People do suddenly seem to have expectations of you when you're in your twenties. True, I'm only at the beginning (I'm 21) but I can still feel the pressure sometimes. The funny thing is, most of the pressure is what I put on myself. I feel like (at 21) because I'm not in a relationship, that I'm "behind" all the other college kids my age somehow. Like when it comes to dating, I'm afraid I'll be seen as developmentally immature or something like that. As stupid as it sounds, I wonder if some of my friends think that about me. On the other hand, I also shouldn't care about what they think.
Otherwise, I like being twenty-one. I don't worry too much about living on my own or anything like that, because (in northeastern USA where I live) very few young adults can actually afford their own place. Everything is mind-bogglingly expensive.
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