something about wedding ceremony. (really need your advice)
Frist, I'd like to introduce the background. I am a Chinese Christian. I got to know Jesus in 2003, when I studyed in Ireland. I confessed my sin before Him. I attended the fellowship--the door of hope, regulaly. I joined the christian student union in the college. My wife (we just got official register, but not having a wedding ceremony yet, which is planed to be taken in the next May), is a Christian too. She got the whole Christianity idea from her Irish teacher in college. I will say, she believes God indeed, but she is immature for sure, cause she is only 23.
Anyway, as told you before, we plan to have wedding ceremony in next May. We wish we can have it in a church, but the problem is since we both dont have baptism we can not have it in the church in China. I feel they dont recognize us as Christians.
In Ireland, I asked my fellowship bros:" Am i a christian now." They said " yes , you are." "People dont born as a Christian, Like Catholic, everyone get Baptism when they were born, but this could not make them a christian automatically." I think that does make sence. In Ireland, I also could get baptism anytime, but in China if anyone wants to be baptised, he or she must attend the learnning class frist. I disagree with that.
I think cofessing your sin before God and devoting your heart to Him make a person a christian. Remember John the Baptist said" I baptise people with water, but you baptise them with your spirit." Second, you dont need to have the knowledge about Christianity frist, then become a christian later. You fully trust in God frist, which makes you a christian, then you eager to know about the knowledge of Christianity later. thrid, every christian has the power to baptise the others ( My Irish bros would agree with that), God doesnt appoint anyone to have this power exclusive.
About my problem, the 3-self church leader offer me two ways: pass the class or no way. I am sure I can pass the seminer if I attend, but I just think it is not right. So I refuse the offer.
Am I right? Am I a christian? Which group I belong to?
I am sure I am in the fellowship who believe God. We think it is not a religion, it is just a life style, it is the truth of life. I am not religious, I believe God casue He is true. Am I still a Christian?
Fish in Greek, the capital words refer to Jesus is the God.
Frist, I'd like to introduce the background. I am a Chinese Christian. I got to know Jesus in 2003, when I studyed in Ireland. I confessed my sin before Him. I attended the fellowship--the door of hope, regulaly. I joined the christian student union in the college. My wife (we just got official register, but not having a wedding ceremony yet, which is planed to be taken in the next May), is a Christian too. She got the whole Christianity idea from her Irish teacher in college. I will say, she believes God indeed, but she is immature for sure, cause she is only 23.
Anyway, as told you before, we plan to have wedding ceremony in next May. We wish we can have it in a church, but the problem is since we both dont have baptism we can not have it in the church in China. I feel they dont recognize us as Christians.
In Ireland, I asked my fellowship bros:" Am i a christian now." They said " yes , you are." "People dont born as a Christian, Like Catholic, everyone get Baptism when they were born, but this could not make them a christian automatically." I think that does make sence. In Ireland, I also could get baptism anytime, but in China if anyone wants to be baptised, he or she must attend the learnning class frist. I disagree with that.
I think cofessing your sin before God and devoting your heart to Him make a person a christian. Remember John the Baptist said" I baptise people with water, but you baptise them with your spirit." Second, you dont need to have the knowledge about Christianity frist, then become a christian later. You fully trust in God frist, which makes you a christian, then you eager to know about the knowledge of Christianity later. thrid, every christian has the power to baptise the others ( My Irish bros would agree with that), God doesnt appoint anyone to have this power exclusive.
About my problem, the 3-self church leader offer me two ways: pass the class or no way. I am sure I can pass the seminer if I attend, but I just think it is not right. So I refuse the offer.
Am I right? Am I a christian? Which group I belong to?
I am sure I am in the fellowship who believe God. We think it is not a religion, it is just a life style, it is the truth of life. I am not religious, I believe God casue He is true. Am I still a Christian?
Fish in Greek, the capital words refer to Jesus is the God.