- Jul 19, 2004
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I can not stop violently crying at the moment. I've been needing to get it out for days. Finally, the kids are in school and he is gone for a few weeks, so I can cry for awhile.
My husband got a new job six months ago that keeps him out of the house for weeks at a time. Before that he was laid-off for about a year. We recently declared bankruptcy and my car was reposessed. We have been together for 20 years. We have two young children.
With his current job, we see him once a month for three days. When he came home this last time he told me that he had been depressed since being laid-off. He thinks the answer is to have an affair. His strongest preference is for me to agree to polygamy. When I didn't agree to that he got me to answer all kinds of new questions about my past. Now, he is using that information against me to make it my fault that he wants to find someone else and probably end up leaving me.
I want to handle all this in a Christian and dignified way. But, right now all I want to do is eat chocolate, almonds and wine and have a good cry. Help.
My husband got a new job six months ago that keeps him out of the house for weeks at a time. Before that he was laid-off for about a year. We recently declared bankruptcy and my car was reposessed. We have been together for 20 years. We have two young children.
With his current job, we see him once a month for three days. When he came home this last time he told me that he had been depressed since being laid-off. He thinks the answer is to have an affair. His strongest preference is for me to agree to polygamy. When I didn't agree to that he got me to answer all kinds of new questions about my past. Now, he is using that information against me to make it my fault that he wants to find someone else and probably end up leaving me.
I want to handle all this in a Christian and dignified way. But, right now all I want to do is eat chocolate, almonds and wine and have a good cry. Help.