In need of desperate Prayer!!

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:groupray: :cry: Right now I'm hurting so much. I am confused and frustrated. My husband of 4 1/2 years wants to leave the marriage. We have 2 beautiful girls and are currently remodeling a home. The lord has blessed us in so many ways.:clap: I don't understand why he wants to give up so easily. He talked to a friend last night about all this. I also talk to him because he and his wife are good christian friends. My husband has been saved and baptised. Our friends (John and Stacy) tell me that he has a lot of sin in his life. He has lost touch with the Lord. He feels that he can't talk to me about anything. I don't always act the way he thinks I should when he tells me something that I do not like. I understand that there are things that I need to work on, but he says he has had enough. He has another son with another woman who is 7 years old, and he has not seen him in 2 years. He says that I want nothing to do with this child and if he leaves me then he can see all three of his children. I do not feel that way about the child. I have been having conviction about seeing the child also, but he has not asked me how I feel about it. John told me that if he confesses all his sins to me that I am going to have to muster a lot of forgiveness. He tells me that I need to prepare myself and I am so scared. I am a stay at home mother and have not worked by the way I'm only 22 and he is 27. We married young and almost divorced with our first child, but that was when he came to Lord and accepted him. I am so confused. I do not want him to leave. I still Love him so much and so does his girls. HELP! DESPERATE PRAYERS
 

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Please Pray with me that the Lord will convict him and turn his desires towards our family.

Lord, I cry out to you with an open heart. I pray that you show him the desire of your heart. Put a hedge around him so that nothing but you can get to him. Make him see how miserable his life will be if he leaves. Let him know to cast all his sins and worries to you because you have forgiven him already. Show him how much his family needs him and loves him. God, you are love and show him what love is. He needs you. I pray that you take him out of bondage and wrap your arms so tightly around him.:bow: :bow: :bow: The three of us are bowing (me and the girls) and praying that you will make him a Godly man after your own heart. You are the only one who can make things right. I know that I should turn this over to you and it's hard. I need your help. I cast thee demon away from his life; release him from the hold the devil has on him. STOMP him away. This be to your name JESUS CHRIST!!!

I hope that I am praying for all the right things and that I am not praying all this out of selfishness because if I am I need the Lord's forgiveness.
 
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I echo the advice to get Godly counsel. A really good marriage counselor might be just what you need. In the meanwhile, I will be praying for you and your situation.

Blessings!

He does not want to talk to anyone. He wants to be left alone. I have asked him to go, but he refuses. That makes it onesided and hard to work on.
 
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:groupray: :cry: Right now I'm hurting so much. I am confused and frustrated. My husband of 4 1/2 years wants to leave the marriage. We have 2 beautiful girls and are currently remodeling a home. The lord has blessed us in so many ways.:clap: I don't understand why he wants to give up so easily. He talked to a friend last night about all this. I also talk to him because he and his wife are good christian friends. My husband has been saved and baptised. Our friends (John and Stacy) tell me that he has a lot of sin in his life. He has lost touch with the Lord. He feels that he can't talk to me about anything. I don't always act the way he thinks I should when he tells me something that I do not like. I understand that there are things that I need to work on, but he says he has had enough. He has another son with another woman who is 7 years old, and he has not seen him in 2 years. He says that I want nothing to do with this child and if he leaves me then he can see all three of his children. I do not feel that way about the child. I have been having conviction about seeing the child also, but he has not asked me how I feel about it. John told me that if he confesses all his sins to me that I am going to have to muster a lot of forgiveness. He tells me that I need to prepare myself and I am so scared. I am a stay at home mother and have not worked by the way I'm only 22 and he is 27. We married young and almost divorced with our first child, but that was when he came to Lord and accepted him. I am so confused. I do not want him to leave. I still Love him so much and so does his girls. HELP! DESPERATE PRAYERS
I will pray for you tonight. We all need to stick together in times like this. Marriage is such a sacred thing and when we have troubles or have a possibility of ending it it can be so scary and gut wrenching. If he is saved and a man of God and truly loves you then he will do all he can to make it work. Are you in love with him? Have you asked God to reveal your heart to him?
 
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Dear Father, bring this man back home where he belongs. Convince him that he needs You and that he has to talk to his wife and confess what has been going on. Bring them both together in love with each other and mostly in love with You. Draw them close to You. Help them to be honest to one another and to forgive one another and give them the desire to start afresh, with no ill feelings toward each other, but instead a deeper faith in You. Thank You for loving them and for protecting their marriage. In Christ's name I pray. Amen.
 
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I will pray for you tonight. We all need to stick together in times like this. Marriage is such a sacred thing and when we have troubles or have a possibility of ending it it can be so scary and gut wrenching. If he is saved and a man of God and truly loves you then he will do all he can to make it work. Are you in love with him? Have you asked God to reveal your heart to him?

He came and told me that he wanted a divorce. I found out through a mutal friend that he is having an affair at work. My heart is torn, my prayers are still there, but hope for this I'm doubting. He has done this to me 3 years ago.
 
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