I posted roughly this same thing in the prayer request thread to just so you know.
My wife and I have been married a little over 5 months now. My wife is dealing with a lot of depression and stuff, its really hard right now. She had to quit here job becuase it was to hard.
Idon't blame her, and the more it seems like I should the more I love her. I don't understand her depression but I sympthize with it and have compassion for her. The thing of it is that she still puts her trust in God. However something is keeping her from turning complete to God, you know laying it all down to him. She is affraid of being set up for failure. She has turned back to depression so many times she just feels like this will be the same. She will be happy for a few days and then she will come back into it.
This I can't understand or fight for her, I try to make suggestions like "Hey lets go downstairs and worship or pray" but she does not want to. She says she still has her heart and loves God, I know she does! But she is just so afraid of that "false hope" and its just ourselves holding us back. Her self image is so low that she thinks she can't to do.
I don't know what to do, I love her so much more then I ever did even when it was great! I just want to help her, I have been praying so much....
My wife and I have been married a little over 5 months now. My wife is dealing with a lot of depression and stuff, its really hard right now. She had to quit here job becuase it was to hard.
Idon't blame her, and the more it seems like I should the more I love her. I don't understand her depression but I sympthize with it and have compassion for her. The thing of it is that she still puts her trust in God. However something is keeping her from turning complete to God, you know laying it all down to him. She is affraid of being set up for failure. She has turned back to depression so many times she just feels like this will be the same. She will be happy for a few days and then she will come back into it.
This I can't understand or fight for her, I try to make suggestions like "Hey lets go downstairs and worship or pray" but she does not want to. She says she still has her heart and loves God, I know she does! But she is just so afraid of that "false hope" and its just ourselves holding us back. Her self image is so low that she thinks she can't to do.
I don't know what to do, I love her so much more then I ever did even when it was great! I just want to help her, I have been praying so much....