First Thing-> Opposite Sex

Sleaker · Sep 11, 2006

Mm I'd say the first thing I actively look for is the shape of the face and whether or not she's wearing makeup. Not wearing makeup is cool! Eyes are probably what I look at next. Also I go for the shorter ones just like chemica, I'm also only like 5'7" - 5'8".

sweetlambofgod · Sep 11, 2006

Sleaker said:
Mm I'd say the first thing I actively look for is the shape of the face and whether or not she's wearing makeup. Not wearing makeup is cool! Eyes are probably what I look at next. Also I go for the shorter ones just like chemica, I'm also only like 5'7" - 5'8".

I dont wear make up

2LivIsChrist · Sep 11, 2006

looks haven't been much of a big deal to me. I mean yes i notice them, and if i see a guy that's good looking I won't deny it, lol. First thing I notice is the face. Yet, what I'm attracted to most of all is their love and fear for God. Like right now, i kind of like this guy who is really good looking. Yet, i didn't even consider his looks at first or even have feelings for him. I knew he was cute, because if any girl saw this guy, they would know he was cute. But i didn't get goosebumps or anything when I saw him. I wasn't until I got to know him, when I really became attracted to him. I think if someone has a really good attitude and loves God sincerely, it can make them really attractive, no matter how they look on the outside.

sweetlambofgod · Sep 11, 2006

Servant4God said:
looks haven't been much of a big deal to me. I mean yes i notice them, and if i see a guy that's good looking I won't deny it, lol. First thing I notice is the face. Yet, what I'm attracted to most of all is their love and fear for God. Like right now, i kind of like this guy who is really good looking. Yet, i didn't even consider his looks at first or even have feelings for him. I knew he was cute, because if any girl saw this guy, they would know he was cute. But i didn't get goosebumps or anything when I saw him. I wasn't until I got to know him, when I really became attracted to him. I think if someone has a really good attitude and loves God sincerely, it can make them really attractive, no matter how they look on the outside.

I agree with ya there!

Godssong · Sep 11, 2006

Hmm...I'm not sure...it depends...generally, it's the personality put forth in the face...I can usually look at someone and just get a sense of whether or not the person is kind...if I think he is, then I continue looking with interest...if not, I wonder what made him so mean...

Godssong · Sep 11, 2006

sweetlambofgod said:
I dont wear make up

I don't wear make-up, either! GROSS!!! (unless it's stage make-up...then it's fun...hehehe)

KarateCowboy · Sep 11, 2006

I tend to notice the Achilles heel first.

KillerV · Sep 11, 2006

KarateCowboy said:
I tend to notice the Achilles heel first.

naturally

Mandrake · Sep 11, 2006

Different people have different features which stand out. I can't think of a certain body part that I invariably notice first, because it's so dependant upon what the person in question chooses to emphasize and/or what is naturally distinctive. That said, I pretty much always pick up piercings very quickly.

bluegreysky · Sep 12, 2006

I notice a guy's eyes, hair, smile and hands.
eyes and smile will tell you if he's slimy or a player or just plain honest
I kinda pick up vibes off of people too...
I pick them up when he first says "hello". Somehow, I know right then whether he really sees me, sees my body, or doesn't really care at all.
unique talent....

sweetlambofgod · Sep 12, 2006

man I wish I had that talent, any tips?

A2597 · Sep 12, 2006

Their face...

particularly...a smile or lack of one. Or lines in the face associated with smiling.
And then the Eyes. You can tell alot by just those two things.

onecrazycowgirl · Sep 12, 2006

Not what his smile is like, but how he smiles, and if he does it much. It's hard to explain ... everbody I've known that doesn't look "sincere" when they smile has ultimately ended up being a person that I take care to avoid later.

Not gonna lie, I like tall guys with nice butts.

krisfromcanada · Sep 12, 2006

Gotta say hair..... especially long hair.... makes us boys melt!!!! :holy:

Kvikklunsj · Sep 12, 2006

Elbows.

sweetlambofgod · Sep 12, 2006

never heard elbows before...very interesting

Butterfly86 · Sep 12, 2006

Elbows!! Do you even see them?

I reckon
1. Smell...
2. Eyes
3. Tone of voice...the deeper the better

Elle_For_Short · Sep 12, 2006

Smiles. Broken smiles or all teeth. And subconsciously I like guys with big noses. It weird.

Loner · Sep 12, 2006

When seeing them for the frist time the frist thing I notice Is there face and then the rest of the body comes. But then as I get to know them the frist thing I notice about them is how smart they are. If a girl is as as dumb as a rock I cant date her (I know, this is coming from a guy who cant spell) but its ture, the dumer they are the less atractive they are. After that then as I get to know you more I strat looking for sings that your do some thing crative (witch for me is a big pluss).

Llauralin · Sep 12, 2006

Mmmm... this is actually a very difficult question for me. I think, usually, it's conversation. Since really interesting conversations aren't all that common, I tend to be pretty oblivious to 80% of the guys around me though.

Then facial hair. A well trimed beard is a wonderful thing.

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