Melbelle
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BabelFish said:Hi everyone!
I just found this forum on the net and this is my first post. Hope I'll have a great time here with a lot of good discusions.
About the spanking, I was born and I live in Sweden. In Sweden, "child abuse" is illegal, and this law is strictly followed by people. I don't know anyone spanking their children.
I have a hard time seeing how teaching love could be done by means of pain.
I also can not help to see how many americans here think it's okey to spank children. I can not help wondering if some of the violent acts commited by children in the US could be in some way related to parents spanking thier kids.
Ok for one I was raised getting spankins and I was raised in church and tought how to spank out of love, yes its pain full but its a good way to teach a lisson? two... how to spank out of love? you take your child into a room where knowone is at sit them down on the bed and tell them what they did wrong and why it is wrong and then tell them how you love them and that you don't want to spank them but this is the best punishment you can come up with and after you spank them rap your arms around them hug them and tell them again that you love them and not to do it again or next time it'll be a different punishment (like take something away or ground them for so long).
thats spanking your kids out of love and I belive this works and every where is starting to get where spanking is illigal but they can throw me in jail cus my childeren will be disapline to my prospective and know will tell me how to do so only Gods word.
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