Here's the scenario: Guy calls girl early afternoon and asks if she would like to get together later that day. Girl says yes and suggests going to sports store that he likes so that camping equipment can be purchased for her son's upcoming camp and suggests a walk near said store since both want to get some exercise. Both parties have appts at 2:30 and his may take quite a while since it is a Dr. appt where he had to wait 2 hours before. By 6 pm girl is wondering what is going on and leaves a message on his cell asking him to call. By 6:30 or so girl is ticked and leaves a second message asking guy to let her know what is going on. After 7 guy calls back. Girl asks if everything is ok. Guy says he decided that he couldn't afford the gas to come down (we're about 30 miles apart). Guy says he got out of appt at 5:30. Girl says she should've received a phone call when he decided he wasn't going to come. Guy says he's calling now. Girl says they had tentative plans, he says no because they never set a time.
Guy was supposed to come down Fri possibly and spend night with girl's family so they could get to a relationship seminar early Sat. Guy will not acknowledge that he did anything wrong and girl is wondering if they should even be going to seminar together at this point because she can't tolerate this.
I had just sat down to dinner when he called me. He refuses to admit that he did anything wrong and I suggested that most people would see it differently. At that he started raising his voice saying he didn't care what other people thought. I told him I was going to eat dinner with my family and we could talk later if he wanted. I'm not sure what I'm going to say when I talk to him, but a break up is a possibility. Actually we are not in a committed dating relationship at this time, but marriage was still supposed to be a possibility. Given the scenario-is there any possibility that he is right?
Guy was supposed to come down Fri possibly and spend night with girl's family so they could get to a relationship seminar early Sat. Guy will not acknowledge that he did anything wrong and girl is wondering if they should even be going to seminar together at this point because she can't tolerate this.
I had just sat down to dinner when he called me. He refuses to admit that he did anything wrong and I suggested that most people would see it differently. At that he started raising his voice saying he didn't care what other people thought. I told him I was going to eat dinner with my family and we could talk later if he wanted. I'm not sure what I'm going to say when I talk to him, but a break up is a possibility. Actually we are not in a committed dating relationship at this time, but marriage was still supposed to be a possibility. Given the scenario-is there any possibility that he is right?