i think that if a wife or husband is being abused i think the vows have already have been broken and like adultery it betrayal of trust!i believe a child or a spouse who is being abused has a right to get out and start a new life because also there are those who want to rip life away from there victim and that victim has the right leave that life and regain a new one !for dont forget those who have lost there lives in abuse!and that is cheating is it not a person dont deserve that !besides you dont know who someone is when you are with them for ten years i mean look at these people who get on the internet and d bad things you wuldve never thought of them face to face !so to conclude this i think GOD wants us to be happy and i think we should pray for these people and the victims and ask for forgiveness!but i also think GOD wants us to help ourselves in some way after all if you ask GOD for something to eat cause you hunger he still wants you to get up and help yourself i think GOD wants us to be strong!he doesnt want us hurt!