Does God Forgive Abusersof The Mouth And The Fist!and If A Woman Is Abused By Her Husband Then Doesnt Dhe Have A Right To Get Away From Him!and If A Child Is Abused By His Or Her Parents Then Dont They Have A Right To Disobey?
Absolutely! All of our sins were forgiven at the Cross. It is up to us to accept and appropriate the freedom that forgiveness affords us. It is also up to us to agree with His forgiveness, recognizing that in His eyes one sin is as bad as another, and we are also guilty.Does God Forgive Abusersof The Mouth And The Fist!
Yes.and If A Woman Is Abused By Her Husband Then Doesnt Dhe Have A Right To Get Away From Him!
Possibly. If the parent is asking the child to sin, or putting him in danger by the request, the child would be wise to disobey. Otherwise, probably not. When the Bible says "Children obey your parents" - there is no qualifier.and If A Child Is Abused By His Or Her Parents Then Dont They Have A Right To Disobey?
Possibly. If the parent is asking the child to sin, or putting him in danger by the request, the child would be wise to disobey. Otherwise, probably not. When the Bible says "Children obey your parents" - there is no qualifier.
I don't think this is what you were trying to say, but someone could take you to mean that if a child's parents are not believers, they do not have to obey them. That, of course, is not true.Actually there is as qualifier. The verse reads:
Eph. 6:1 "Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right."
Children are to obey their parents IN THE LORD.
I don't think this is what you were trying to say, but someone could take you to mean that if a child's parents are not believers, they do not have to obey them. That, of course, is not true.
talitha said:Possibly. If the parent is asking the child to sin, or putting him in danger by the request, the child would be wise to disobey. Otherwise, probably not. When the Bible says "Children obey your parents" - there is no qualifier.
I guess what we have here is a difference between what I mean by 'qualifier' and what you mean. Please do not patronize me.bliz said:Darlin', you said there is no qualifier. God gave us a qualifier. You proposed possible exceptions based on your wisdom and logic, not on God's word. If the difference is unimportant to you, we need to talk.
BrBob said:A little clarification as far as I'm concerned:
Actually there is as qualifier. The verse reads:
Eph. 6:1 "Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right."
Children are to obey their parents IN THE LORD. When parents are abusive they are not "in the Lord", they are acting out of self. We have to be careful here because if we're not we can get into conditional thinking and that's not what I'm after. The Holy Spirit leads children as well as, if not better than - adults. He (Holy Spirit) can and will let you know if there is a real problem. It's that unsettledness in the spirit, that niggling sense of 'that's just not right,' in the belly.
Parents are sometimes not "in the Lord" and it's a relatively harmless situation in which the children can learn to see their parents as human beings with faults and feelings. Other times parents are grossly not 'in the Lord,' in that they are putting their children in the way of harm, either physically, emotionally or spiritually. (Example: news item this week - a woman took her children along to steal. Not a good situation!) It is in this second situation where children who are of sufficient age to make good decisions need to question their parents if that is possible or, in extreme situations, remove themselves from the place of harm and find refuge. Please, don't look at what I'm saying and think that I advocate running away from home. That's not what I'm saying. If a 13 year-old boy is told to go buy drugs for his father he should NOT do it. He should go straight to his pastor, counselor, teacher, policeman or trusted (honorable)adult. That is removing himself from the situation but not running away. Running away is a negative action. Taking steps to remain safe and stop abuse or something similar is a positive action.
Now, about living in an abusive marriage. An abusive spouse has broken his/her covenant vows. The covenant is broken by the violence. Judge accordingly.
God Bless you!
Excellent reply. Abuse is also against the law. Collect evidence of the abuse and have a plan of action if you choose to report it to the law enforcement agencies. A person can be held liable for any child abuse not reported within that state.estellaluvsgod said:I agree with the last post. But I do believe and I have grown up in a household with violent abuse, that if a wife is being beaten, she must escape from it physically,it effects her and her children, as far as divorce it's hard to say, even though it sounds like it is only the right thing to do. That is not one of the boundaries for divorce in the bible, scary enough I think we might just have to physically get away from that person and pray for them alot. If they can't stand that we aren't around them and a restraining order and other legal actions take place. Then they can choose to finally divorce you.
Like the book of Corinthians 1 chp. 7 says about marriage , "if the unbeliever leaves let him go, you are not bound to someone in such circumstances." anyone who is beaten there wife, if a believer, sure is not following God's word about marriage saying that
"A Husband should love his wife as Christ loved the church".
So main thing though with these types of situations is to pray. As for the child abuse issue, well there is no boundaries for that. other then you should love and respect your parents no matter what.. But if it does cause you to sin, then you have the right to disobey.
mercy0915 said:Does God Forgive Abusersof The Mouth And The Fist!and If A Woman Is Abused By Her Husband Then Doesnt Dhe Have A Right To Get Away From Him!and If A Child Is Abused By His Or Her Parents Then Dont They Have A Right To Disobey?