2 of 2 dreams

God's great peace be multiplied to you twinkie!

A mother in a dream tends to represent the Voice of Wisdom and compassion, so would certainly seem Jesus is about to consummate your husband with His Wisdom from above that will indeed save your marriage! God Most High will fill, renew, and enlighten (bubble bath) your hubby's mind with His Wisdom coming from heaven...it is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness.

1 Corinthians 15:57-58 But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that your labor is not in vain in the Lord.

...

twinkie said:

In this dream my husband and I were back in the State that we used to live in...
We were in the process of moving to where we live now.
Next we were in either a nice hotel or a house????
I went into the bathroom and saw my husband and mother playing in a bubble bath - they were both nude and standing in this very large bathtub.
My husband was wearing a shower cap.
Then I went into this large room that had a couch facing the foot of a bed.
My husband was lying on the couch and my mother in the bed and my husband was staring at my mother that was in the bed.
He was very short with me as I asked him "Please tell me that you aren't gonna sleep with her"
He replied " yes, I am"
In desperation, I went to my mother's right side and begged her not to sleep with my husband -
she was crying and said " yes, I am going to sleep with him -it will save your marriage."
I had a pencil in my hand and broke it in two and began to try to disfigure my mother's face so that hopefully my husband wouldn't desire her.
She didn't resist but my efforts were in vain.
I woke up.

I do believe these dreams go hand in hand.
Please help.

link to 1st dream http://www.christianforums.com/t3172629-1-of-2-dreams.html

Click to expand...

Women often report having this kind of dream when they have found out there husband has been view inappropriate contentography or when they have been suspecting that he has been unfaithful or when the husband has been telling the wife verbally or non verbally that she is inadequate in bed. I don't know if any of those things has happened to you, but your dream is very common among women that feel insecure about their sex lives.

twinkie said:

No, my husband hasn't been involved in inappropriate content.
He's never on the computer - ever.
What I do feel insecure about is that he lied to me over and over back in Jan. 2005.
It has made me wonder if he continues to lie and what else has he lied to me about.
It isn't something that I have been thinking on lately though - until these dreams.

Click to expand...

That's why you dreamed these dreams. You subconscience wants you to start dealing with your feelings about what happened in Jan 2005 and to resolve them with your husband. You are worried that he is having an affair (again or still) and since you won't think about the warning signs and painful feelings while you are awake, your mind has you dream about it to remind you to deal with it all.

twinkie said:

Just for information - My husband did NOT have an affair.

Click to expand...

Okay, I just read your other post.

Lying is a betrayal of intimacy and trust just like having an affair is. Your dream is about the feelings you have of being cheated on by his lying--it's still telling you that you are not over his betrayal and you need to deal with the problem and your feelings.

twinkie said:

Lambslove,
I reject your interpretation based on the fact that you don't believe in biblical interpretation of dreams.
Thank you for your input but I don't believe that you have given a Holy Spirit led interpretation.

Click to expand...

Whoever told you I don't believe in Biblical interpretation of dreams is a liar.

Twinkie

I don't interpret dreams and I don't know much about psychology, but I think lambslove is right about what she told you about your dreams. It's really obvious you have trust issues with your husband. You don't need dream interpreting credentials to see that.

And I'm new around here, but I think your posts to lambslove were very rude and way exceeded what was called for. I'm not trying to make an enemy of you, but I hope you just addressed him/her that way because you were distraught over your dreams. Otherwise a stranger like me would think that you are quite a mean person.

She simply said

So, unless God is leading you to interpret these dreams, please refrain from carnal interpretations.

Click to expand...

How is that rude, she doesnt want a psychological world interpretation. Your taking a online forum a bit to seriously, "make an enemy of you", *** mate ur a christian you have no enemies. She said completely logically she rejects carnal interpretation in this instance and wants someone led by the holy spirit to interpret it, how else was she to say it?

[bible]2Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. James 1:2-5[/bible]

I am new to dreams and visions. I do know that God deals with us in our dreams, and although I know that the previous interpretations were rejected consider this:

As I read through the postings, I sensed a hostitility. It overwhelmed me and at first I wasn't going to respond, but I felt compelled to.
The two dreams have two things in common....blatant denial and deception, and a pattern of hurt. This is on the part of your husband. Whatever exists between you and your husband, there are frustrations that you have buried, and they are lingering in the deepest parts of your heart. This has less to do with your current husband, and more to do with your first husband. (I assume you have been married before based on the statement made in your first dream) I sense that through the hurts of your first marriage there has been a transference of hurt to your current marriage. You had one bad experience a year and a half ago, and you let it go. But your heart never forgot, and now God wants you to face it head on.

Like I said, this has less to do with your current marriage, but the spirit of hurt that you have carried with you is now trying to stir up. God wants you to break through but you feel like you aren't being heard, or respected, or like you speak but are either mocked or brushed aside despite your best efforts. (2nd dream) I suspect, that your mother in your second dream has nothing to do with a sexual betrayal but more of a betrayal from the past. Had she interfered with your first marriage, or was there someone who represented a mother figure in your life who had caused hurt for your first marriage? Perhaps there is forgiveness that needs to be given....??? As for the girl in the car in the first dream.....somehow I feel that the child she spoke of was the spirit of hurt born from your past. I don't know how the driving down the highway fits in(??). Consider this, in both of your dreams you see yourself in the state you previously lived in, a representation of a previous place in your life. You have moved physically, but there is a part of you who has kept on to the emotional and spiritual hurt. Also, I recomend speaking to either your Pastor's wife, or a trusted member of your church to refer you to dealing with soul ties. Have someone pray with you, and let the Holy Spirit reveal to you what soul ties you could possibly have encountered along the way in your life, and seek to break them, and forgive the people with whom you are attached.

These things are keeping you from moving on with your current husband. Don't worry about the place your husband is in with God, as you move closer in relationship with Him, so will your husband, he will move along with you.

As I quoted from James above.....the best thing is to spend time and reflect on your own heart.....but seek wisdom from God on this. PRESS IN!!! This may be something that will take some time with God.....take some time to just listen, and then talk it over with your husband so that you can go above the place you are currently in and soar above your circumstance.

[bible]7 Deep calls to deep
in the roar of your waterfalls;
all your waves and breakers
have swept over me....
11 Why, my soul, are you downcast?
Why so disturbed within me?
Put your hope in God,
for I will yet praise him,
my Savior and my God.
Psalm 42: 7, 11[/bible]

Read all of Psalm 42 and be encouraged, because these dreams may be the start of an awesome break through for you. I will say this, a feeling of sickness came over me as I read through your posts. I do sense an anger and a bitterness, so I would encourage you to be refreshed, and soak in God's waterfalls. If there is any unresolved unforgiveness....ask the Holy Spirit to reveal it to you, and deal with it.

This is all I can offer, unfortunately I have little to offer in such an impersonal manner. I only just recently began recieving visions, and I even have some learning to do. I have only just recently conqured one of my own recurring dreams with the grace of God. God does have the ability to take away the things that would keep us from His true blessings in our life.

God Bless
Jen