You and your optimal Christian pair
It obvious that there are different types of personalities within our faith. I am curious, which are you and what type are you optimally looking to marry(G-d grace and discernment willing)? Also would you give a few suggestion to your optimal pair on how to best approch you?
The Basic categories (feel free to modify to fit)
1- Bold; fair to limited degree of social contacts[limit the people around you]; few good friends; top priority in a relationship is commitment and a shared responsible value system; career is based on values; family is structured; Faith is about service in morality.
2 – Gentle; large degree of social contacts[open with people]; many good-close friends/family; top priority in a relationship is the love-bond and affection; career system based on need and interest; family structure is open; faith is about loving one another.
3- Successful; large degree of social contacts; many good friends; top priority in a relationship is openness and support; career system is based on ambition; family structure is flexible, faith is about charity and being ones best.
4- Intrinsic; fair to limited degree of social contacts; quite selective about close friends; top priority in a relationship is attraction and connection; career system based on feelings; family structure is experimental; faith is about using one intrinsic “moral” instinct.
5- Objective; selective about social contact; selective about friends; top priority in a relationship is connection and balance; career system is explorative; family structure dead center; faith is a basic part of functioning.
6- Firey; fair degree of social contacts; selective about close friends; top priority in a relationship is security and commitment; career system is decided; family structure is structured; faith is an expression of self.
7- Blissful; expansive social contact; selective about friends but like to have many; top priority in a relationship is love-bond; career system is flexible; family structure is open; faith is following what is right and good.
8- Confident; fair social contacts; has an inner circle not individual friends; top priority is a relationship is connection and attraction; career system is what is in the best interests of the inner circle[family]; family structure is organic; faith is faith.
9- Graced; lot of social contacts; has a wide variety of friends; top priority in a relationship is stability and peacefulness; career system is flexible; family structure is open; faith is about G-d.
It obvious that there are different types of personalities within our faith. I am curious, which are you and what type are you optimally looking to marry(G-d grace and discernment willing)? Also would you give a few suggestion to your optimal pair on how to best approch you?
The Basic categories (feel free to modify to fit)
1- Bold; fair to limited degree of social contacts[limit the people around you]; few good friends; top priority in a relationship is commitment and a shared responsible value system; career is based on values; family is structured; Faith is about service in morality.
2 – Gentle; large degree of social contacts[open with people]; many good-close friends/family; top priority in a relationship is the love-bond and affection; career system based on need and interest; family structure is open; faith is about loving one another.
3- Successful; large degree of social contacts; many good friends; top priority in a relationship is openness and support; career system is based on ambition; family structure is flexible, faith is about charity and being ones best.
4- Intrinsic; fair to limited degree of social contacts; quite selective about close friends; top priority in a relationship is attraction and connection; career system based on feelings; family structure is experimental; faith is about using one intrinsic “moral” instinct.
5- Objective; selective about social contact; selective about friends; top priority in a relationship is connection and balance; career system is explorative; family structure dead center; faith is a basic part of functioning.
6- Firey; fair degree of social contacts; selective about close friends; top priority in a relationship is security and commitment; career system is decided; family structure is structured; faith is an expression of self.
7- Blissful; expansive social contact; selective about friends but like to have many; top priority in a relationship is love-bond; career system is flexible; family structure is open; faith is following what is right and good.
8- Confident; fair social contacts; has an inner circle not individual friends; top priority is a relationship is connection and attraction; career system is what is in the best interests of the inner circle[family]; family structure is organic; faith is faith.
9- Graced; lot of social contacts; has a wide variety of friends; top priority in a relationship is stability and peacefulness; career system is flexible; family structure is open; faith is about G-d.
). I mostly just dislike the "Christianese" that makes things palatable in pop Christian culture.
